Advice Please

My mum is type 2 and has a gallbladder problem.she went into hospital into A and E as she was having pain in her upper chest and was unsteady on her feet and had a temperature but after tests told her they couldnt find anything so was sent home til next day she went back in they did a scan and she has a distended gallbladder .that was april.since then shes been losing weight .shes so forgetful its affecting her mind.she then had a probe into her bowels last week to see if there was cancer or anything else like polyps. Nothing Thank fully. But she cant eat hardly more than about 6 spoonfuls of food. She gets tired spends alot of time in bed as she gets worn out.shes got pain at times under her right breast in gallbladder area. They've told her she has to wait til september if she even gets anything done. Shes never been overwieght. Shes now almost skeletal. She has been back to ask whether they will be doing anything but told to wait each time.it was first 2 weeks then again 2 weeks etc now sept.having diabetes 2 is on top of her gallbladder issue. The medical profession are slow and dont seem to care.shes always been fit and busy and shes only in her early 70s.i feel they dont care.shes trying to get on with normal life but it takes it out it her. Shes petite in hieght and has lost alot if muscle tissue now .she says when she tries to eat its like she can eat some food but then she just cant anymore. She wont let me go with her to the gp as she says theres no need.though she has told the gp that waiting til sept is unnaceptable .shes having bad memory issues due to being so underwieght and unwell and her eyes look a little vague .she converses fine but gets tired and slows in her speech. I have been trying to find some nutrients or vitamins online which would help but as shes diabetic there is need to be careful what she has. Any help would be appreciated if possibly from someone with medical knowledge also.

I will tell her to go but will try to get her to let me.i read that link and ive read similar.but leading to gallbladder cancer is scaring .i wont be allowed to speak to him as its against the practices rules.thank you for your help and will go on here to keep updated.its a joke shes suffering and nothing is being done.

Thank you for your reply , she went today as she has pain in her chest and he said she will now need to have investigation by looking into her stomach with a probe to see if there is a blockage or something. I told my mum Before about are they going to do this weeks ago and she said no as the gp never suggested it. She wont let me go with her she feels its the gp that can only do what he can under the circumstances as mum had a letter dated 6th july that only arrived yesterday from the hospital which she didnt mention what it was , but the doctor said the NHS are so busy which is why the letter came to her late .to be honest i am more scared her gallbladder is worsening and shes likely to get more seriously ill .but i already feel she is.shes very hard to talk round and goes with what the doctor says .i am fed up with the loop holes in the treatment of the NHS and her wieght probably has not been kept watch .shes an extremely intelligent woman and will not however go with anything much i say as she says she must go with the doctors .but i have been so ahead of it all since she was taken ill months ago and watched her get worse and they only do something unless she goes to say of her having problems relating to her gallbladder but dont look after her inbetween.she was told way back she would have her gallbladder out. But theyve said around september. I loathe them all.i am so frustrated. Sorry ive gone on about it. Maybe i have to resign to the fact its how it is. If this was a child they would have done far more. I do believe they care less if you are an adult.