We are all told not to test (Type 2s on diet or Metformin that is). Our advice is simple. Ignore your doctor, and if you don't test, test, test, it may be at your peril!
Have a read of all the success stories on here, look at the results in people's signatures. Not one could have done that without testing. It is the only way to learn which foods and drinks your unique body can cope with. Test before you eat and a couple of hours after first bite. Look at the rise. Anything above 2mmol/l (preferably 1.5mmol/l) and that meal needs tweaking either by reducing the portion sizes of the carbs or eliminating them. Keep a food diary, record your levels alongside, and patterns will emerge. You will learn this way. There is no other way to learn I'm afraid.
I'm not a beer drinker, but I love my red wine, and that is fine for us diabetics, also spirits with sugar-free mixers or water.