I know next to nothing about the Animas, but have a Paradigm 522 which is basically the same as the Veo. I'm sure an Animas user will come along soon.
I very rarely use the remote option, bit like one of those Christmas prezzies you play with for hours then never touch again. The remote function is VERY basic only, bit disappointing really.
The vibrating alert is useful, since the audible one is next to useless unless you're in a very quiet room.
If you ever want to use CGM you'd need the Veo I think, and another really handy feature is that you can pair it with a Bayer Contour Link meter, so that meter readings are transmitted direct to the pump so they're already there when using the bolus wizard (which is another great thing, but I assume the Animas has this too?). Simple but great and I use this all the time.
Lucky you having a choice! You get what you're given at my clinic!