Probably the best thing you can do is use Libre sensors for a while in combination with a food log and your finger prick tests, and their continuous recording 24/7 should show you exactly what your reactions to various food combinations and other issues will be. And that information is what you need to work with.
Other peoples' results can be interesting but are not really useful for me because my diabetes, other possible health issues, and general circumstances are completely unique to me. However, in general I eat a combination of protein, full fat, and some low carb vegetables/fruits which tends to keep my levels nice and stable. If I eat high carbs then I'll see a definite post meal rise. Fats and higher carbs combined can result in a longer and possibly delayed "bump" rather than a sharp rise. As already mentioned many other things can affect glucose levels, and sometime they can result in overall higher levels though pre and post meal figures remain stable. But as long as I can keep my glucose within my target range then I don't worry over much about very fine details over which I may have little or no control.