Hi Lotstar,
Really sorry to hear of your babys recent diagnosis, my daughter is 11 yrs old and was diagnosed in march this year.
It has been really tough, her blood sugars were all over the place highs, lows and we struggles to keep them under control. The diabetic team didnt want to introduce us to carb counting too soon as they didnt want to give too much information.
However in the end i said that i just needed to learn it and quick as i was really struggling to cope with all the worry of it. The diabetic dietician came to see us a few times at home we kept food diarys for a while to get the insulin to carb ratios correct and then it took a bit of learning but we got there.
Her blood sugars only became alot more stable since doing insulin to carb ratios, we still sometimes get highs and lows but generally they have been alot better doing it this way. I have even learnt and you will too how to adjust the insulin to carb ratios if needed.
I feel alot better since we have been doing the insulin to carbs counting and actually feel like we are more in control of it than the drs and nurses. I was ringing them all the time in the first month now i havent called them for weeks. So i would def ask for them to teach you carb counting very soon, as that way your baby can eat what he likes as long as the insulin given is correct and covers it.
Things like beans are good as only half the carbs count as they are high in fibre with brown bread for toast, cheese isnt counted as carbs so cheesy scrambled egg, yoghurt with fruit like strawberrys, apple, blueberries, raspberries.
Good luck