Hi Joshman
You can have painkillers specifically for nerve pain. I didn't know what it was either to start with. I've been diagnosed with type 2 for about 4 years now. Initially I'd thought it would greatly affect my life but it hasn't. Going back to the nerve, it didn't click that it was connected to my diabetes. it didn't even click that it was nerve pain, initially I was worried it was cardio- vascular but I went to my GP and the diabetic nurse at my practice. That was when I found out it was neuropathy. I felt rather daft once I was told. I was already on Gabapentin 300mg tds for nerve unrelated to my diabetes, it was due to an old injury. I noticed when I stopped taking the Gabapentin that the pain was in fact worse. Basically my neuropathy affects mainly my feet, when I'm bed, either sitting up in bed or lying down. It starts immediately, I find a hot water bottle helps, I even had the water bottle during what little summer we had. I do get numbness in my hands but I have other medical ailments that mainly cause that.
Try not to worry too much, as it won't help but I can understand that you are. Basically if you have good circulation and sensation in your feet then that's good. It doesn't mean your feet will fall off but you do need to pay more attention to your feet, such as cuts or grazes to your feet. As for your hands speak to your doctor or diabetic nurse but to be honest if I think if they had concerns you would be the first to know. Good Luck.