Hi Julie,
sending lots of ((hugs)) i'm so glad youv'e come back to the forum, and i'm sorry your daughter has now joined our children as being diabetic, but like you say it could have been a whole lot worse. Off hand i can't think of any books, but someone will surely come along with some titles of literature for you, I had a few glasses of wine last night, never again, today my brain is so fuzzy!!!
There are plenty of parents here to lend support and answer questions, it does get easier, Andrew was 7yrs old when he was diagnosed, he's now 11 and its 4yrs since diagnosis on 2/2.
Take care,
Suzi x