Some of us manage a little fruit. I do because I want the vitamins, fibre and variety.
Berries, blackberries and raspberries for example are lower carb than all the tropical fruits.
A little apple or pear eaten with some fat eg cream or peanut butter, and a as part of a meal rather than a standalone snack may raise your bg less than if you eat a whole plain fruit mid morning, for example.
I grow my own raspberries but have a freezer full of locallly foraged blackberries. About 8 berries a day doesn't seem affect my bg, and satisfies my "source local and seasonal wherever possible " aim.
If I were 82 I wouldn't be wanting to deny myself things I liked, but there's usually a portion amendment or swap that means you can still enjoy food and life, even with diabetes