Not at all, I have not implied you're sick therefore cannot live and I don't really understand what you mean by that statement? In fact I did say twice that I now completely understand why you're there with no medical insurance and I wish it could be different for you, ie to have the benefit of good, available healthcare in the same country as what sounds like the love of your life. That's what I meant about being stuck between a rock + a hard place - it seems unfair to me that you should have to choose one or the other. I'm really not very well either so we're in the same situation, everyone here's got something wrong with them, not to put too fine a point on it and your illnesses don't trump mine and vice-versa - you don't know what the last 2.5yrs have been like for me and I really hope you never do - it's been hell. I did also say you didn't need to justify yourself to me - you don't have to; you explained, I understood, I told you that - I get it, there's no other way to say it, and there's nothing in my last post that can be taken any other way. In my original post, not only was I not "picking on" anything at all (merely questioning what you had been saying, which I found illogical), but I also didn't "pick on" anything insignificant - to you, that was very significant, because you talked about it. Insignificant things don't get mentioned. You weren't questioned about it but spontaneously talked about it, and having seen what you said about the Doctors I understand even more why it was of such significance that you couldn't effectively communicate with them - they were acting ignorantly towards you in your hour of need, which is unthinkable. I studied French & Law (British, European and French Law), and I also speak several languages; I'm not a student of multiculturalism because I simply am multicultural, being half British and half Italian. On the legal side, unless you paid in some way for that medical care or were entitled to free care then I can't see you having a claim for medical negligence as there was no contract or agreement in force. If however you did pay in some way, or were entitled to free care, then if you can deal with a court case you should pursue them not only for yourself but to ensure they don't mistreat anyone else in future. And on the languages side, while it must have been overwhelmingly irritating, especially whilst feeling so absolutely awful, to have the Doctors demand you speak Quebecois (very, very petty indeed - at least you were speaking French in the first place, it's like a Doctor in Newcastle demanding you speak Geordie), I don't agree with your asssertion that all Doctors worldwide should have a grasp of English - that's a pre-requisite for pilots, but not medical professionals. Yes, it would be fantastic, but it's not going to happen abroad. In fact, you are one of the 'special people' who do what I consider the right thing by ensuring they know the language of the country they're going to live in and that should have been enough - it's the Doctors' totally ignorant behaviour that caused the problem, they could have easily understood you - no English required. They probably made the DKA worse by adding even more stress to you. Maybe you can pre-prepare some cards to keep in your wallet with things you want to say or ask for in Quebecois for next time you end up in that hospital (if you do?).