Hi, you're right to doubt your daughter's your ex-consultant. Repeated swings are not a good thing, and will make your daughter feel pretty lousy too. I was told exactly the same thing by my consultant a few years ago, when my BGs were up and down like a yo-yo and I was suffering other symptoms. She told me it was ok to go as high as 15-18 as long as it came down quick, but I'd been type-1 too long to swallow it, and believe she was fobbing me off as she was reluctant to take me off Lantus.
It turned out that Lantus did not suit me, it caused a host of problems, which I've since discovered are being increasingly reported, and lousy diabetes control.
You should expect your daughter's diabetes team to listen to you and work with you, after all you are the one dealing with her diabetes everyday and will have the most knowledge of her daily control.
I don't know about Apidra, but there are plenty of other insulins available including animal insulins. Here' a link to page on this website listing all available insulins.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/insulin-in-the-uk.html
I had a problem with Actrapid many years ago,that I would take it before a meal, but invariably end up hypo 2 hours after and hours after that! I'm on Porcine Neutral now, which is quite similar in action to Actapid, according to the profile charts, but works completely differently has a much more gentle action- my BG rarely goes above 9 after a meal, and no hypos 2 hours later.
We're all different and the current "one size fits all" prescribing of analogue insulin for everyone, is not, in my view, beneficial to us type-1s.
Your daughter's very lucky to have such a caring mum looking out for her.
Jus