I joined the forum for a push. I felt better when low carb, about 20g maximum a meal. My husband and I used to walk after the evening meal and he was very supportive. Four years after his death I am seeing a lovely man, a widower and fellow diabetic. However, he is completely cavalier in his attitude, eats high carb, enjoys a a beer etc but he does respect my low carb stance. So lots of temptation around which I need to resist and my thread is a declaration of war on my lack of willpower.