Thanks for your replies, its not really the whole story. Sorry for the wall of text,
I was diagnosed at the beginning of January this year. I was incredibly thirsty all the time, drinking water by the pint. I have always eaten alot, particularly bread and potatoes. I'm overweight, was more so then, and had eaten wayyyy to much **** over xmas. My blood sugar when tested was 24.
Thing is i'm only 35, though my father was type 2 diabetic and i understand genetics plays a role. I say was because he died mid July last year, age 65, just 5 1/2 months before I was diagnosed. It hit me incredibly hard, particularly as we'd just had our first child, a baby boy, just 6 weeks earlier. My mom died when I was 18 so he was my only parent. I felt my son had been robbed of a grandad who adored him and as much as I loved my son, i still do, there was also a conflict that, because I associated him with my father, he served as a painful reminder of his death. It was probably the most stressful time of my life.
5 1/2 months later i'm diagnosed diabetic and wondering how the hell a 35 year old has diabeties. I also work in sales which can be stressful. The point is, I keep hearing how stress can be a huge factor in diabeties and i'm, wondering if it played a significant role in me developing it.
When i found out i was incredibly determined to do everything I could to fix myself. I went on the newcastle diet, lost 2 stone and improved my readings to the point where i stopped taking metformin by choice. Unfortunately, I started eating badly again some time after the 8 weeks was over, mostly due to convenience, work, running about after child. laziness and denial. I put a stone back on, and although I was not as bad as in the past, i was still pretty bad.
I only started to eat healthy again 7 days ago, just low carb and lots of fish, I started taking my 500g metformin again 2 days ago. I have got 5 - 5.7 every evening (2ish hours after dinner) for the last 7 days.
I went to a bbq yesterday and ate bread and sweet n sour chicken, ribs in source so i expected it to be quite bad today. I even had a cheese sandwich at 7.30ish as i was hungry when i got in and there was no food in the house.
What puzzles me most is why my own BS was only 5.5, and also why it was only 0.5 more than my wife who isn't diabetic, yet she went to the same bbq, and didn't eat anything after 5ish. I'm starting to wonder if she's diabetic or i'm just not as diabetic as my initial numbers suggested (maybe due to stress?)
I've been bad and not made a appointment to go back and see the nurse since January, partly cos i fell off the wagon, partly because her attitude winds me up. She was so dismissive of low carbing & the newcastle diet (she'd never heard of it) and a lot that i've read, here and elsewhere, since my diagnosis, seems at odds with her advice and makes me question whether she's even the best person to be listening to. I want to have a month or so of being "good" before i book an appointment.