I meant the flounces of announcing 'I want everyone to know I've put people on my foe list'. Surely the answer to your question would have been found by sending a pm to admin or a moderator. It's the fact that you feel you have to 'go public' all the time, that, in my opinion, is making you look a little childish and pouty.
But that is only my opinion. After working in offices mainly made up of females for 30 years or so it's something that you get used to; in the office the person would be taken to one side and asked if they wanted any help. On line it's more difficult.
Yours in a wish I could help way
MTT