I'm sorry to hear that you are having these problems Chris.
I was diagnosed 18 months ago HBA1c 53. I have kept it under 40 for the last 15 months, but I do get some pains in my feet. They aren't numb, but I get like mini electric shocks from time to time. The shocks occur every couple of minutes for a day or so and are bad enough to interrupt my sleep. It does seem to be happening much less now that my BG is at normal levels. My GP says that he has known people who are pre-diabetic to have problems with their feet and eyes, so the severity of the condition doesn't seem to be the sole factor. The only thing we can do is to keep our BG under control so that the side effects don't get any worse or hopefully even improve a bit.