I finally started seeing results with fasting levels. It took patience being on a strict diet (and by diet I don't mean calorie counting, I mean staying away from bad carbs and keeping it as keto as I can). After 5 straight weeks of patience, and persistence, my morning levels and in-between meal levels are going down. My (unscientific) feeling is that the body needs to: get rid of fat & glucose storage around the liver and be "trained" that it is OK for it to not dump which I think it does because it is being triggered by excess insulin. Once the insulin needs drop, the insulin resistance alleviates and the liver starts learning that it doesn't need to keep dumping glucose to keep you from dying in your sleep or between meals. It won't happen with 1 meal change or even a few days. It will take weeks.
This doesn't mean that carbs wont' spike your levels anymore when you have them, that will still probably happen, but the point is to get to a safe level and stay there. Like someone with allergies - those allergies will never go away on their own (technically, I'm sure some people have managed to somehow "cure" their allergies) so you have to treat diabetes as always-present. Once at normal levels you can probably cheat every now & then, also to "test" your body to see how it reacts (hopefully only partial spike and then quickly back to normal) but you will never be able to get back to the same eating habits as before.
Before I fully succeeded in bringing my fasting levels down, I told my theory to the endocrinologist and she said "that's now how it works [regarding the liver]". Welp, I don't know if it is or isn't, I just know that I think like an engineer and my body is a machine and I am doing what seems to be working.