I have to admit I've changed my tune about practice nurses over the last couple of years. In this area there's only one practice nurse - or you do without, so no point complaining. No real choice of doctor in this rural area either - like it or lump it.
Can't say the diabetic practice nurse I was first assigned to was all that bad, though she seemed to fall more or less in line with my GP in the view that T2 is a self-inflicted injury suffered by fatties. My observation that I'd only gained serious weight around the time I got diabetes casually dismissed, and my claim that I eat like a pigeon clearly regarded as a lie. Don't eat so much and you'll lose weight - if that doesn't succeed then you're either lazy, gluttonous or self-deluding - probably all three.
But at least she gave me no problems with testing strips, even in the early days when I used a lot - I've learned since how rare that can be. She regarded the low-carb approach as dangerous nonsense ("for heaven's sake don't you start listening to those weirdos on the internet!") And though the strip problem never seemed to arise, she didn't see any value in the results - peaks weren't important, only the A1c test was relevant. In fact, even if you did test, only pre-prandial testing was appropriate (and even in the very early days that opinion seemed ridiculous).
In over 3 years, I've never seen my doctor again since that very few minutes he diagnosed and more or less dismissed me. And since then almost none of the ancillary tests and advice I'd been lead to expect. Almost every checkup I got - eyes, feet, etc - were the result of my own desk-pounding. I still don't have a local dentist. Worst of all, it was soon apparent to me that my practice nurse knew very little, in fact, about diabetes other than what she'd been formally taught a great many years ago - and saw no reason to address that failing. Frankly, I got to view visits to the clinic as a consummate waste of time.
But a change of practice nurse not long after brought wonders. The current nurse is younger, sympathetic, open minded and quite pretty to boot (OK I may be a mcp, but sometimes a sympathetic pretty face is better than medicine.) She's actually a pleasure to visit. She's NOT converted to the low-carb thing, but she seems happy for me to take charge of my own condition as long as she's kept in the picture. At first she encouraged only pre-prandial testing too, though she admitted later she'd been overwhelmed by patients' opinions on that matter. Even when she's clearly not too happy with my progress, she's always positive and encouraging - a huge change from the "do exactly as I tell you or the consequences will serve you right" attitude I'd encountered previously. She now openly admits she's learned a lot from her patients, but hinted that any departure from the party line in the NHS is simply not tolerated these days. I suspect she quietly bends the rules rather a lot.
But, as seems so common in the NHS, I don't think she's getting the support she feels she needs - that level being determined by accountants. And I think that's something we all need to keep in mind when dealing with non-MD medical professionals. She's recently become the lone practice nurse for 2 or 3 other disciplines in our small local hospital/medical practice - a building with admin staff so thick on the ground it's hard not to trip over them - clearly, patient care is NOT at the top of the financial priorities. It's quite apparent that her REAL job is simply to make sure that patients don't bother their majesties the doctors (4 of them who account for almost a million each year in salaries before the practice ever treats a patient) or take up too many 'limited' resources. She doesn't discuss such things with me of course, and when I put some of the above questions to her directly, she just shrugged and said "Don't get me started!" But it's not hard to read between the lines when she has to put me off for 3 weeks before she can do a blood test as - apparently - I've "had my share of resources" until that time.
So, popps - if there is a choice of nurses (there may not be) - then push until you get a nurse you can relate to - consider changing GP if that's what it takes. You shouldn't have to justify yourself, as any medical student knows that the nurse/patient relationship can be crucial.
I have a pretty strong character (whim of iron, SWMBO calls it) but even I have felt better - in myself if not always about my condition - by a sympathetic practice nurse who actually LISTENS.
Doctors???? Don't get me started....