Welcome to the forum ,Jake,you've come to the right place.As regards meters,can you get one from your doctor/nurse?I have a one Touch Ultra which I like.You only need a small drop of blood,it gives you plenty of time to 'load' and you can download all your readings onto computer to make a very impressive chart to take to your doctor.Having said that ,so do most of the others and other members will recommend other meters because they like them! I don't know if there is a lot of difference between them.
Have a good read round the forum and you will find lots of interesting hints and tips about diet,exercise and generally getting on top of your diabetes to let you live your life to the full.