Hi Steven, I know its all so confusing when you first get that diagnosis, well done for joining the forum, read through it here as well as the old forum, there is so much information in here, you will be surprised how much you will learn from every single post.
Yes you can test your bg at home, in fact the clinic should offer you a meter and prescribe you with test strips too though some people have to be quite stern and demand these, seems that some areas in the country the medics are not so keen on prescribing test strips, if this is the case then stand your ground how can you achieve good control when you dont know which foods send your bg high and which are keeping your steady, etc
In the beginning it is all trial and error, for example some people do really well on porridge for breakfast others cant handle it and their bg shoots through the roof. So you really do need your meter and testing strips.
There are many ways to help yourself to control this disease, its not all bad news you know, so dont worry too much about it, but please do take the time to learn as much as you can and do read both this and the old forum.
All the best
Karen