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help and advice needed!

wolves74

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Hy all my wife was diagnosed with t2 7 weeks ago and she has been told to diet and take metaformin, the reason i need help is that I'm feeling under hyge pressure to keep her on the right tracks! She has list weight and reduced drinking alcoholand she gas done really well and I'm so proud of only problem is that on nights like tonight she wants ti go to town to celebrate a friends birthday and obviously drink as a normal 34 yr old would do but this worrys me to death as last weekend she went on a hen doo and suffered badly the next day with what apparantly was a hypo, so therefore im nagging her about tonight which is causing her to hate me! I don't know where to turn as im not coping well, I dont want her to suffer conllications but I dint want to ruin her life either, I feel so stuck her doctors are not helpfull and everywhere i get info from seems to contradict the other so i feel that I can't help her, for example an introductory magazine told us if sge suffers from High bs and is on metaformin she can not have a hypo this appears not true. I feel si desperate and don't know what to do so i wrote this to see if im on my own. Thanks anyway Dave
 
Hi Dave,

Long term the odd night out isn't going to cause too many problems as long as your wife is generally well controlled then the odd spike isn't such a bad thing, even diabetics need to let off steam (as long as it isnt a regular thing ).

As far as hypos go everyone can have a hypo even non diabetics, regardless of medication. Metformin is generally not associated with causing hypos, however your wife may experience either a full blown hypo or hypo symptoms.

In short alcohol being high in carbs will cause sugar levels to rise quite rapidly, and because they are fast acting when you stop drinking your levels can also drop very quickly, so last time your wife had a drink and she was bad she was either as you say having a hypo or it may have been a false hypo.

A false hypo will occur with a blood sugar level above that of an actual hypo and you can experience some or all of the symptoms of an actual hypo, generally this is due to running high blood sugar for a few days and then getting back in control, or if levels drop rapidly from a high to normalish reading.

You didn't say if your wife monitors her levels if she doesn't I would strongly advise that she does, if she does and her levels were around 3.5 then she probably did have a hypo.

I pretty much stopped drinking after diagnosis as it makes controlling levels as a type 2 even harder and it can be hard enough in normal circumstances but if your wife is going to drink then I would advise that she doesn't drink too much and have something to eat before and during the evening so that her levels dont drop suddenly once she stops consuming alcohol.
 
Thank you! You are lovely there is a lot to understand and to take in! I'm sure it will get better with time I'm just so worried about pushing her too far at this stage she recently bought a monitor but she was advised not to by doctors but everyone including her optician says she should. Am sorry to winge on here but I do feel quite desperate and confused.thank you though
 
Hi Dave

I am also a type two. Like your wife I was fanatical at the start (three years ago) - right food, exercise etc.

But it is important to note that you control the disease it should not control you. So in my case I am not so rigid any more; my blood scores are fine and the HbA1c is 6.4.

Its ok to have treats every so often - binging is not good.

Your wife is lucky to have one who cares.

Ceara
 
Welcome to the Forum,

Here is the advice Ken and I give to new Diabetics, hope it helps your wife .

 
I am on Metformin (among other medications) and I always advise against drinking and medicating, but not all have the same atitude towards that issue. As for Metformin and Alcohol, it is usually not necessary to completely avoid alcohol while taking metformin. However, drinking large amounts of alcohol while taking metformin is not recommended (due to the risk of lactic acidosis which can be life threatening). Be sure she asks her doctor if it would be okay to drink alcohol while taking this drug. Her doctor understands her particular situation and is in the best position to factor in all of the variables (including other medical conditions or other medications she may be taking) before giving recommendations about metformin and alcohol.
 
Hello Dave
Some people have actually found that alcohol can stablize ther scores If you take a backseat for now ( encourage her to use diet mixers rather than alcopops lager or beer ) Then next morning get her to test :idea: keep a record of these day after levels. Don't nag or winge at her as that night out time is her night off from diabetes . If you really want to assist her get involved with the diet side of it
Hope this helps JF
 
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