OK , Totto and Pipp. My excuses (and they are only excuses)
I have never really enjoyed swimming. It was something I did as a child because I was forced to. I went swimming when my kids were young to help teach them to swim. I went swimming with them on holiday because I wanted to spend time with them. It has always been something I did for other people, not for me.
I hate loathe and detest getting dressed in the changing rooms afterwards.
I hate wasting time doing something I don't enjoy. I really would rather iron or clean the bath.
Yes I still get upset when people make comments about my weight. I can't just shrug it off. In some ways I am very strong, in others I am oh so weak. This is one of my weaknesses. I care too much what people say about me. Having been ostracised by a certain group of people in the past, my confidence has been badly affected. (no, this wasn't because of my weight, it was because I was misunderstood) People only see the fat, they don't see me. This is why I can only really communicate on this forum. You can't see me. I don't think I would ever enjoy the water exercise, though if the day comes when that is the only decent exercise I can get, then I am prepared to try it.
Sorry I am probably sounding very stroppy here. I don't mean to sound like that, and I am hearing you both. I appreciate you both for mentioning it, thank you. I am not saying never, just not yet. I am prepared to revisit something I didn't like in the past if it will improve my health, and I can see that it would. Just not yet.
I don't, fat floats! But I am hoping I will sink soon.
Sorry Pipp, I shouldn't have replied to both yours and Totto's posts together, I just saw they were both concerning exercise and water and took an instant dislike. I suppose I am so used to the 'fat and lazy' label that I took your comments personally, that's my problem not yours, and I did kind of always realise the post was for everyone not just me, how I received it was my fault - your post doesn't come over in a judgmental way at all. I think maybe I need to grow up a bit. Pipp, I do get a lot of encouragement from reading your posts, so please continue in the same vein, I am glad that you and Totto raised the subject. Please do the same again if something similar crops up, I would rather have the chance to consider all options than forget some because they are uncomfortable for me at the moment.
I have never had a problem with any of your posts, or anyone else's for that matter. Worrying about what other people think of me is just vanity, and it's vanity that got me where I am today. When I was in my 20's and 8 1/2 stones, I did everything I could to lose a few pounds because I didn't want to be fat..........
So, sorry about my bad reaction to such a thoughtful post.....I just don't like water!
What's ironing? I don't understand this cartoon?For a moment, I was worried there. I thought you were going to pledge 30 minutes ironing a day. I mean; there would be something just no quite right about that.
I am allergic to ironing. Thankfully, my OH is the household custodian of the iron and ironing board, and he does a sterling job.
Believe me there is NO way I would pledge to iron every day for 42 days. I hate ironing more than anything else.
Mind you it would probably take 42days to see the bottom of my 3 ironing baskets lol.
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ZandOK , Totto and Pipp. My excuses (and they are only excuses)
I have never really enjoyed swimming. It was something I did as a child because I was forced to. I went swimming when my kids were young to help teach them to swim. I went swimming with them on holiday because I wanted to spend time with them. It has always been something I did for other people, not for me.
I hate loathe and detest getting dressed in the changing rooms afterwards.
I hate wasting time doing something I don't enjoy. I really would rather iron or clean the bath.
Yes I still get upset when people make comments about my weight. I can't just shrug it off. In some ways I am very strong, in others I am oh so weak. This is one of my weaknesses. I care too much what people say about me. Having been ostracised by a certain group of people in the past, my confidence has been badly affected. (no, this wasn't because of my weight, it was because I was misunderstood) People only see the fat, they don't see me. This is why I can only really communicate on this forum. You can't see me. I don't think I would ever enjoy the water exercise, though if the day comes when that is the only decent exercise I can get, then I am prepared to try it.
Sorry I am probably sounding very stroppy here. I don't mean to sound like that, and I am hearing you both. I appreciate you both for mentioning it, thank you. I am not saying never, just not yet. I am prepared to revisit something I didn't like in the past if it will improve my health, and I can see that it would. Just not yet.
Jeez 55 people died. Another reason why I aint eunning!Cool, Congrats to him55 dead was my best 10k time, (emphasis on "dead" afterwards)
Not guilty.Zand
Who were these shallow freaks who could not see you for the fab person you truly are? I don't give a rats ass what my friends look like coz my friends are my friends. Hold your head up high woman! I figure that anyone who is bothered by what I or anyone else looks like in a swimming costume is a loser who needs to focus on their own life! And get a grip! Take care! Xxx
Or even running! LOLJeez 55 people died. Another reason why I aint eunning!
OMG just remembered son needs 5 shirts to pack as he is going away to work this week....thanks...I'll be back laterWell I was motivated to stand for 3 b ₩~{}}y hours this afternoon and iron.
I thank you all for motivating me to do this even though I haven't done it all . My husband has a shirt for every day this week and our holiday clothes are all washed and ironed so....
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If he's old enough to go away for work hes old enough to iron his own shirts.
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