Don't be sorry and a warm hello , read advise from daisy ....read all you can from many sources only if you want to of course ...Hi I have never done this before and am not sure what i am doing all I know is I have type 2 Diabetes and am struggling to regulate my diet. I have periods where I am ok and others where I am still pigging out on bread and butter and chocolate. Everytime I finish eating I feel stupid and guilty but it doesn't stop me doing it again. Just typing this makes me feel silly, I am a 44 year old mum with a 6 year old and a husband so why do I still self destruct?
Sorry if this is not the right place but I am at my wits end and I need to change and am getting more depressed and angry with myself as I struggle so much.
Thanks to anyone that reads my ramblings and again I am sorry for being so silly
Welcome to the forum, hopefully daisy will be along soon with her advice to new members of the forum
I am on 1000mg of metformin twice a day and to be honest I am not sure what my HbA1c was it's a question I will ask next time I see the Dr, I don't test my blood and have never been given the choice. I have had diabetes for a while and feel like I should know more than I do it wasn't until I joined this page I even knew Carbs were bad for me I guess the burying my head in the sand method isn't working for me. I need to lose weight as well as anything else and will read anything anyone wishes to point me towards. It's time to change and start taking care of myself.What meds are you on, and what blood sugar/HbA1c results have you had?
Do you test yourself with a BG meter.
I think it's because carbsHi I have never done this before and am not sure what i am doing all I know is I have type 2 Diabetes and am struggling to regulate my diet. I have periods where I am ok and others where I am still pigging out on bread and butter and chocolate. Everytime I finish eating I feel stupid and guilty but it doesn't stop me doing it again. Just typing this makes me feel silly, I am a 44 year old mum with a 6 year old and a husband so why do I still self destruct?
Sorry if this is not the right place but I am at my wits end and I need to change and am getting more depressed and angry with myself as I struggle so much.
Thanks to anyone that reads my ramblings and again I am sorry for being so silly
are you getting enough fats? if you feel tired or cold, you need more..if you are craving 2 hrs after eating, cut your carbs moreHi! You're not silly! I'm a 42 year old mum of a 5 and 6 year old and that is enough to drive us to chocolate some (most?) days!!
It's been a month since my diagnosis and I was really disciplined to start with but I've noticed the last couple if days I've struggled not to give in and pig out. What is keeping me going is still a bit of shock I think and trying to think that this lifestyle is now not a choice but what I've got to do to stay healthy for. Myself and my kids. It is really hard though. Are you building some treats in for yourself? I'm doing LCHF ( but moderate fat) and have a square of dark chocolate or sugar free jelly, berries and cream occasionally so I don't feel too deprived. Using my meter to test my blood sugar 2 hours after eating is also motivating me because I get some satisfaction when it doesn't go too high.
Take it slow and be kind to yourself. Take some time to read and think and try an approach that you think you can manage.
Don't give up. I'm trying not to!!
I am on 1000mg of metformin twice a day and to be honest I am not sure what my HbA1c was it's a question I will ask next time I see the Dr, I don't test my blood and have never been given the choice. I have had diabetes for a while and feel like I should know more than I do it wasn't until I joined this page I even knew Carbs were bad for me I guess the burying my head in the sand method isn't working for me. I need to lose weight as well as anything else and will read anything anyone wishes to point me towards. It's time to change and start taking care of myself.
Hi grohldoll and welcome. I posted something similar to you when I found this site in May. Your post really resonated with me. When I joined I'd been on Metformin for a few years, then Gliclazide, but no-one had mentioned not eating carbs to me and I was very much head in the sand about diabetes and felt that I'd been following such a stupid self-destructive path for years - binge eating, eating sugary treats etc.
About 5 years ago I took part in a trial internet course on mindful eating, which helped me make a start on the self-destruct cycle. I learnt to give myself permission to eat what I wanted and not to indulge in the binge/disgust/guilt merry-go-round. Of course there was quite a lot more involved in getting there and you'd have to research it to see if mindful eating is for you, but it's something to think about for that aspect of your (our) problem with food.
I did start slowly losing weight though, without starving myself, feeling deprived, cheating - you can't cheat if you have permission to eat what you want. I started to get my head in gear for eating in a less destructive way. However, this did little for my diabetes.
Then, having been refused an operation as my blood sugar was too high, I found this site and started thinking that low carb might be the way for me. I hit the deck running and went very low carb, but not high fat (not low fat either). It was OK. I wasn't getting cravings. I wasn't hungry (actually I rarely am - it's not why I over-eat). I lost weight. My blood sugar came down. It was great.
Like everything in life there are ups and downs to this. I fall off the wagon. I still occasionally pig out, but I keep going back to low carbing and back to getting my BS under control. My focus has definitely changed to watching the BS, not feeling guilty about food or not losing weight. For me the low carbing is helping me lose weight slowly. Sometimes I go weeks without losing any, but I'm not letting it go back up, so if it's slow then it is was it is. It seems to be a way of working on this diabetes thing that is right for me.
Coming on this site, talking to others and learning that I am not alone is one of the best things to have happened to me. Being open and honest and keeping a diary was my first step (search for I'm Rosie and I'm a carboholic). I also used the My Fitness Pal website to input all my daily food, which helped me learn a lot about carbs. After a lifetime of weight issues I knew about calories, but was ignorant of carb values.
Anyway, sorry for droning on so long - and you thought you rambled! I just felt you needed to know there is life beyond this and you can take control, Best of luck.
Having had type two diabetes for 13 years and ignoring it apart from popping more and more pills I have just been put on insulin twice a day and am monitoring four times a day, before each meal and before bed and I must say I can't really work it all out yet! I am reading so much about low carbs and it seems common sense but the nhs advice is to include carbs as long as they are not the refined ones. I am really tempted to try low carb but am reluctant to ignore the advice I have been given - please help!
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