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husband has been diagnosed type2.

charlies wife

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hiya just found this site,and i have loads of questions to ask.
my husband was diagnosed about 3 weeks ago. hes alread had the retina scan. seen the nurse.(got an amzing doctors luckily)
shopping ive discovered is a nightmare, so any help ill grab with both hands.
many thanks in advance
 
Re: husband has been dianosed typ2.

Hi Charlie's wife and welcome! Confusing isn't it? Here's some info you may find helpful
. In general terms you will need to reduce the total number of carbohydrates you eat per day. All carbohydrates turn to sugar when we eat them, and no type 2 diabetic on diet only, or on diet and metformin only, can control their blood sugars (BGs) without controlling their carb intake. Even those on strong medication normally choose to control their carb intake to keep the level of medication they take down. The total number of carbs per day you can eat depends on how advanced your diabetes is. It’s perhaps worth starting at about 50% of normal levels for a non-diabetic then adjusting up or down according to how you get on. That’s 150 grams of carbs per day for a man, 125 for a woman. You can read the total carb content of food under “nutritional info” on the packet or wrapping, or look it up on the internet for loose food. Just google “carb content..”
You also need to stop or reduce the bad carbs; that is the starchy ones that make your BG go up quickly.
So obviously no sugar or glucose! But also no white bread, white rice, pasta, flour products like pastry, cake and batter. You can eat a little basmati rice, wholewheat pasta or the tri-color pasta fusilli ones in small quantities. Boiled new potatos are OK but not old pots mashed, boiled or in their jackets. (Roast is not so bad, the fat slows their absorption and conversion to glucose in the blood) Amongst other veg, parsnips are about the worst for BG, and carrots not great but ok in smaller amounts.
Multi grain bread (not wholemeal) is not SO bad, but lots of us eat Burgen soya and linseed bread from tescos and sainsburys, although all bread should be in limited amounts.
All fruit has carbohydrates, and needs to be included in the amounts of carbs you eat in a day. For most people, bananas are about the worst for pushing our BG up and berries (like strawberries, raspberries etc) are the least bad.
No sweeties!
Exercise is important. I tend to exercise about an hour after eating when I know my BG will be peaking. This helps to bring it down quicker and further. I do ten minutes hard work on an exercise machine, but you could run up and down stairs for ten minutes or go for a brisk walk.
Returning to types of food and quantities of carbs - you can only find out how many you can eat by testing. Most type 2’s are not given access to testing equipment, so you should get your own – although try arguing with your Doc that you want to manage to NICE guideline blood sugar levels, and can’t do that without testing! If you have to buy a meter, they are cheap and most manufacturers will give them away for free. They make their money on the strips you have to use! So go for the meter with the cheapest testing strips. Some people test before and after eating, on waking (fasting test) and before bed. But if you have limited strips because of cost, the key to me is testing 2 hours after eating. If your BG is above, say, 7.8 at that stage, you need to cut down on the carb content the next time you have that meal. Test after various different meals and you soon get to see a pattern of what you can and can’t eat, and in what quantities. You can then reduce your testing. I said “below, say, 7.8” because NICE guidelines are below 8.5 but most of us think that’s a little high. 7.8 is the max. Level at 2 hours after eating that a non-diabetic normally gets to so is perhaps a better target. Some then set progressively lower targets.
Do ask lots of questions; there is normally an answer on here. There aren't any stupid questions! The more you get to learn about your diabetes, the better it will be.
 
Hi Charlies wife and welcome to the forum I hope this information that we give to new members will answer some of your questions. Whatever questions you have, you can ask them on here and someone will reply.

 
ive just had a quick read, been a busy day,and 2morrows not any better either. but ill get charlie to read all of this as well. maybe print it out.
many thanks for your replies.
 
Hi,
My wife is in the same situation, although i have possibly read a bit more that she has as it affects me.
She has got some hard work to do, ( and i don't mean to be a male chauvenist)
I have never had breaklfast in the mornings before, usually cigarettes on the way to work and a coffee when i got there. Being diagnosed 3 weeks. i have started to. At the moment, bored wih muslie, weetabix to dry, begining to like some brown bread with sugar free jam, eggs not to sure as high Cholesterol was diagonosed at the same time. Sandwiches at work always came with a banana as she thought that was healthy, possibly is to everone else.
Today was fried skinless chicken, peas, mushrooms and pasta and 2 oranges. Dare i take it home telling here that she has made way to much to eat at work, and i can't stand oranges with pips in. I guess a few sulky situations will happen in this new learning curve. AT the moment the good news is we are still standing together in the supermarket isles reading labels. i presume when my wife will be in a bad mood with me , i will be reading them by myself. HA
 
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