Danaemac
Well-Known Member
- Messages
- 234
- Location
- Dunfermline
- Type of diabetes
- Type 1
- Treatment type
- Pump
- Dislikes
- People who think they know what you need before you do
Hi Josephine,
Why? Why do you remain silent? You are not doing anything wrong!! You do not to have to hide away. You only have to tell work colleagues once. If they don't like it, tell them not to look!!!!!! I am sure that if you explained then they would understand. Plus, it is best to let someone know just in case you have a hypo. You are brave but you need support too. I am 67, I have been diabetic for 40 years and never once has anyone, ever, said or been unpleasant to me in regards to my injecting. I inject at the dinner table, even when in a restaurant. Sod 'em. No one has ever complained. Although, I have one friend who has a needle phobia and I tell her to look the other way!!! She has been my friend for a long time and just laughs. Why would people be so interested in what you are doing anyway? Live your own life as you see fit. You don't have to stand on the table and inject in your bottom!! Love Heather x
This is a matter which should be reported to your management. There are laws which prohibit discrimination based on a health attribute. It is up to the employer to set the complainant straight and provide a proper place and arrangement for you to inject. I am assuming you are in the UK. There would be an avenue to go to the Anti discrimination body to seek redress, but that should be a last resort as you ought try to work the problem amicably with your employer and avoid any bad will setting in.Hi I Could do with your advice and oppinions please. Im a t1 diabetic and work full time. I was wondering if anyone else had this problem, I chose only once to inject myself in the staff room with my hubby there and one other member of staff. Later on me and my hubby was questioned and told not to inject myself in the staff area as someone had complained. I now feel that i have to hide while injecting. I have to go to the changing room. Has anyone else has this problem. And if so what is your answer to staff and bosses please? Thanks x
I have had T1 Diabetes for over 40 years and have found that most other people are uncomfortable with watching people have injections. I have a staff member who faints at the sight of needles, so it is obviously not great to inject in front of him! I do my bloodtest at my desk, and my injection at my desk, and then go to the lunchroom. It is not really 'necessary' but it saves everyone else being uncomfortable. The desk top and computer screens sort of hide what I am actually doing, even though everyone knows. I have a friend who always injects through his clothing when out at a restaurant for the same reason.Hi I Could do with your advice and oppinions please. Im a t1 diabetic and work full time. I was wondering if anyone else had this problem, I chose only once to inject myself in the staff room with my hubby there and one other member of staff. Later on me and my hubby was questioned and told not to inject myself in the staff area as someone had complained. I now feel that i have to hide while injecting. I have to go to the changing room. Has anyone else has this problem. And if so what is your answer to staff and bosses please? Thanks x
Hi I Could do with your advice and oppinions please. Im a t1 diabetic and work full time. I was wondering if anyone else had this problem, I chose only once to inject myself in the staff room with my hubby there and one other member of staff. Later on me and my hubby was questioned and told not to inject myself in the staff area as someone had complained. I now feel that i have to hide while injecting. I have to go to the changing room. Has anyone else has this problem. And if so what is your answer to staff and bosses please? Thanks x
I had this issue only last week. I was diagnosed out of the blue with type one Diabetes two years ago having no issues prior to this. I have been very up front with people and have not hidden my condition from day one. So last week I was sitting at my desk and minding my own business. I had just returned from lunch when my boss approached me and asked if he could have a word. In his defense he was quite embarrassed about this but he had advised me that a colleague had made a complaint that I was upsetting them when injecting due to their fear of needles. ( I have been afraid of needles all my life and it took some getting used to) I am always discrete and feel that having to go to a public rest room at work is not ideal or hygienic so I inject discreetly at my desk. Is this a problem in peoples opinions? I now try to be even more discrete injecting in my tummy when at my desk. I have been quite understanding due to not wanting to be disrespectful to colleagues however would like to know how others would handle it.
The law says that your employer must provide a suitable place for you to inject. A lavatory is not a suitable place. When I was on MDI, I always injected in the same room as other people. I just turned my body so no one could see. If people object, next time I say, 'If you don't like needles, look away now.' The other point is that the needles are minute these days. People have to be very close or staring at you to even see it. It is worth taking your insulin pen and showing the needle to your boss or HR. They can quickly see how easily you could raise a case for workplace bullying or discrimination when they understand how hard it is to actually see the needle. Half the time people hear a report from your colleague and imagine some whapping great monster syringe out of a Carry On film.
To be fair like I said my boss was very apologetic about the whole thing. It was said to him and as such he just advised me of what was said. I felt that it was a stupid complaint however I can appreciate that he was stuck between a rock and a hard place. He even stated that if it was said again he would put the person in place. Just cant believe people are so backwards in this day and age. Hopefully I will be moving to a pump in the next 8 weeks or so.
You might want to read this article: BullyingHi I Could do with your advice and oppinions please. Im a t1 diabetic and work full time. I was wondering if anyone else had this problem, I chose only once to inject myself in the staff room with my hubby there and one other member of staff. Later on me and my hubby was questioned and told not to inject myself in the staff area as someone had complained. I now feel that i have to hide while injecting. I have to go to the changing room. Has anyone else has this problem. And if so what is your answer to staff and bosses please? Thanks x
Hi and yes, I see where this comes from. I inject in my tummy, through my clothes, so discreetly, as under a table. Even if it's more visible, I carry on with a conversation and show by body language etc. that this is no big deal. I have never been challenged in the work-place. If I were, or if someone says, as they sometimes do, 'Ooh, I couldn't do that,' I simply say, if it means you die otherwise, you do it. As to injecting through clothes, I don't get any infections, but if you really feel the need to strip, swab etc, by all means take yourself to somewhere private or be prepared to be an object of curiosity. I think my way allows people to learn a little and it is very rarely a discussion point, just accepted.Hello
In my view, the correct way to handle such people or situations depends on the type of person you are and what behavior/reaction of yours makes you feel more comfortable.
Please let me explain what I mean. There are people with diabetes (some of them in this forum) who are very open regarding our condition. They are also very bold and can stand up for what is happening to them and how they handle our condition. They are not afraid to explain themselves in public and even pick up fights to support our diabetes.
I like them, I really do and I admire them for having the patience and the stamina and the strength to be alert and ready to defend themselves at all times.
And, there are people like myself… I can feel hurt by others as my diabetes is still a raw spot for me. I have heard so many clumsy and unpleasant (borderline rude) comments regarding my condition and… I do not argue or defend myself. Instead, I cry silently at the office’s restroom… in the car when driving home… in my bathroom while taking off my make up… in the shower… before I go to sleep.
So, for me, it is easier to keep my diabetes silent and private… just like I keep everything else in my life silent and private.
I cry silently. I suffer silently. I worry silently. I struggle silently.
And, I inject silently.
When in the office I either inject in the ladies room or I do a free carbs meal to avoid the injection.
I know that injecting in the restroom is unhygienic but, I feel that if anyone complains that injecting in public is unpleasant/uncomfortable to watch then, I would perceive this as a direct insult about myself. As if my diabetes has made me an unpleasant person that brings discomfort to others.
My aim in life is to simplify, as much as I can; Simplify my diabetes, simplify my relations with others, simplify the way I live each day so that I can end each day with comfort in my soul. So, I can’t pick up a fight… In between all the things in my life that I have to be brave for, I can’t be brave for this too… having to explain myself and my condition to any idiot who comes along…
Doing things silently and privately is an easier way for me to cope with my own reality. It helps me keep my sanity. It doesn’t make me feel embarrassed (for something that we should not be embarrassed in the first place) and it doesn’t give people food for gossip (because people LOVE to gossip).
Therefore, I think, the only wrong way to handle such a situation is the way that makes you feel uncomfortable with yourself.
Regards
Josephine.
I had this issue only last week. I was diagnosed out of the blue with type one Diabetes two years ago having no issues prior to this. I have been very up front with people and have not hidden my condition from day one. So last week I was sitting at my desk and minding my own business. I had just returned from lunch when my boss approached me and asked if he could have a word. In his defense he was quite embarrassed about this but he had advised me that a colleague had made a complaint that I was upsetting them when injecting due to their fear of needles. ( I have been afraid of needles all my life and it took some getting used to) I am always discrete and feel that having to go to a public rest room at work is not ideal or hygienic so I inject discreetly at my desk. Is this a problem in peoples opinions? I now try to be even more discrete injecting in my tummy when at my desk. I have been quite understanding due to not wanting to be disrespectful to colleagues however would like to know how others would handle it.
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