I have had a pump for the last 7 years.
Like you, I was unsure about having something attached to me all the time.
My first pump was a tubey pump. It was fine. It was not too large and, despite everyone's concerns, I didn't catch the tube on door handles all the time or snag it in bed. Most of the time, it was clipped onto my belt or tucked into a pump belt. It was not large (smaller than a pack of cards). I am pretty active so had a couple of "events". When climbing it came unclipped and was dangling when I was up a steep overhang. It didn't pull out the cannula or get caught in the climbing rope. It just freaked out my belayer. The other time was when I was doing a flying trapeze. My pump was neatly hidden in my pump belt when I did a backflip dismount. The pump came out of the belt and wacked me on my hip. Apart from a bruise, I was fine and the pump was unaffected. Neither of these scenarios are "typical" scenarios so not a problem for most people, including a bathroom fitter.
My second pump is a patch pump. I prefer it because it is smaller and out of the way. But I have sensitive skin and more of my skin is attached to the glue on the pump. So not ideal.
Do pumps take much management? I guess there a few things to consider
- setting up. This can take a fe weeks to get right. But you should have assistance for it.
- changing sets. You have to fill the pump with insulin and change the cannula every 3 days. It takes 5 to 15 minutes each time. At first it is a bit fiddling but becomes second nature.
- understanding and using the features. You could attach your pump and leave it running. But you may want to suspend your basal when you work the extra couple of hours or use a different bolus profile when eating a pizza. This takes some getting used to but I find it is the true value of the pump.
- pumps fail. Not often but they do fail and you need to be able to manage when they do. This could mean changing your cannula when you least expected it or disconnecting completely and reverting back to insulin pens.
Regarding which pump, I recommend talking to your DSN and find out what they offer at your clinic. This varies greatly. Officially, I do not have an option of a patch pump, for example.