Thanks for all your good wishes, very much appreciated.
Welshtony - have had a think about the 5 most important changes I have made to my diet and lifestyle and here goes:
1. Joining this forum! And reading success stories on here....... and deciding it is only me that can change my destiny. I armed myself with as much info as I could and decided which course of action I was going to take.
2. I decided to go the low-carb route as this made the most sense to me. I cut out all potatoes, rcie, pasta and bread. I have an addictive nature (was a heavy smoker for 20 years and it took a lot of will power to give that up but I did it so knew that if I put my mind to it I could do it). I eat between 30-50g carbs a day, mostly from things like natural yoghurt, creme fraiche, fruit (any fruit that ends in berry seems to not spike me too much),nuts, cheese, salad etc. 3 months on and I still do not eat any potatoes, bread etc and do not miss it as I feel so much better for it.
3. Only having healthy things to snack on - my favourites at the moment are nuts and creme fraiche with raspberries in it and cheese. I have a teenage daughter and a partner who do not follow the low-carb with me so I still have things like bread, pasta, potatoes on the menu - I just pile my plate up with salad instead.
4. My mum is a T2 insulin dependant for 30 years and to be honest, she has had a few problems. She has had a toe amputated due to the Diabetes and now has neuropathy in her feet which has resulted in her falling down and fracturing her shoulder and her wrist. She now walks like a thunderbird puppet as she cant feel the floor when she walks!!. So this frightened me into doing soemthing about it - her control is not good and her BS levels are running high despite being on high doses of insulin.
5. EXERCISE - now I have to hold my hands up and admit that for the first 2 and a half months I did very little exercise. I was very overweight and even having a free gym and swimming pool at work, I really didnt feel like exercising. So its been quite a result to have lost the 2 1/2 stone BUT it then plateaud. And was struggling to lose anymore so have now started going to aqua aerobics with my daughter and its started to drop off again, And because I feel so much better in myself and look better, I am actually enjoying it - never thought I would hear myself say that!!
So there you go, hope its helpful to some of you. I know the low-carb debate can be quite heated but it has worked for me. I spent many years yo-yo dieting, doing the weightwatchers, slimming world etc and nothing ever worked. This is working and I shall continue with this now as a way of life, and hopefully will be here in all my glory to see my wonderful daughter get married and have children herself. And just think of the hat I can buy!!!!
Good luck,
Sandie