Well it sounds like both you and your Son are doing a great job in looking after his Diabetes and his general health so well done to both of you
An interesting point though Stoney, I think it is trying to get a balance between what you want to do and your control, ie trying to balance life in general ,activities ect and getting a decent HbA1C to try and limit complications...though my Diabetic nurse say's this is not a guarantee that you will be complication free.
She says she see's Diabetics with great HbA1c's and they still get Diabetic complications and at the other end of the spectrum there are people with poor HbA1C's for a lot of years and they stay complication free. My theory on this is if I try my best with my control, and try to limit them, if they do come along then I won't feel so guilty.... in that it was not all my own doing :wink:
I remember through both my Diabetic pregnancies ,it is very much pushed home to you about causing birth defects, complications ect due to poor control and I was paranoid...I think expectant mothers are even if they have not got Diabetes. I had my Hba1C's throughout both pregnancies between 5 and 6 and I remember living with a lot of hypo's to get my control that good and not being able to do a lot physically and it being pretty stressful to be honest.
I could manage it for 9 months at a time, but for a life time, no thanks :shock: There does have to be a balance, so I think your Son's Endo is right...but I do understand as a Mum you would worry.
Sounds like you are both doing just great though