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Learning to grow up

angua

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Hi to everyone here, my name is Gilly, I was told in May that I was pre-diabetic with an HbA1c of 58. Really shocked at the diagnosis but then I really shouldn't be - I'm very overweight, a significant wine drinker and have always had a predilection for sweet things. Due to an atrial flutter (sorted) and the installation of a pacemaker I really haven't done much in the way of exercise for a very long time. Really had my head up my bum for many years
So I started skulking about here in early May - thanks to you all and the knowledge that you've shared I've realised that its not the end of my world - there are many positive things I can do .... in many areas of my life that will only have a positive result. More than that however I see that you all take responsibility for yourselves - sounds really stupid for a relatively intelligent woman of 55 - but I think I've lived thus far under the warped and mistaken belief that I was a bit immortal, I see from you all here that actually admitting that I'm not, that I have to 'take care' of myself is not quite as scary as I had supposed.

I have not had any alcohol since May 3rd
I have given up my beloved winegums (but have seen a post about sugarfree jelly :idea: )
I have bought a meter
I've worked out I cannot eat pasta bg = 10.6
I cannot eat a whole nectarine with half a bread roll bg = 13.7
but tonight I found that I can go to the local hotel and eat beef stroganoff with salad bg = 6.2
so for the poster who's tag is "I eat to my meter" thank you ... and so do I
hopefully during my time on the forum I'll be able to contribute a little of what I'm learning for others like me, learning to grow up.

Gilly
 
Hello Gilly

Welcome to the forum

I am so pleased that you've found the forum before your pre-diabetes evolved into full-blown diabetes. You've grabbed the chance to change your lifestyle and you're going to live for many long years now. I do think that being diagnosed with diabetes or pre-diabetes can be a positive experience because if you find what works for you, you can enhance your life, become fitter and extend your lifespan.

I thought I was immortal until a year ago as well. Since then, thanks to some fantastic advice on this forum, I've turned things around and am now fitter than I have been since I was a teenager and I was 54 in May.

At first the diagnosis of diabetes or pre-diabetes can seem scary, but really it is not. I prefer to look at it as being given a chance to take control of your life. There are not many conditions where you can be such an active participant and directly affect your own state of health. It is a challenge, but a very satisfying one.
 
Welcome Gilly,

I like you knew I need a kick up the bum and this was it.

It's very empowering to take control of your life, isn't it.
Mary x
 
Hi Gilly and welcome to the forum
You seem to be doing well and hopefully you won't progress to full diabetes if you carry on like you are now. Here is some information to help you which we give to new members which you may have already seen, but just in case.... Ask all the questions you need to as you will get lots of replies.

 
Welcome to the Forum, and well done on taking control of your diabetes. I played around it for many years with all the wrong info but pleased to have found this forum and all the advice from very knoledgable folk. I am sure you will benifit too.
All the best Kate
 
Welcome to the forum Gilly. I'm glad you listed something that you've found you can eat without getting bad numbers. It's a good feeling and one you'll repeat over and over as you get the hang of controlling your levels.

Any questions - just ask.

S
 
"There are not many conditions where you can be such an active participant and directly affect your own state of health. "

Thank you didie. I could adopt this as my motto since it is such good advice but I have a motto already which you can read in my signature.

Welcome Angua and I hope that your journey into personal responsibility is a happy one.
 
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