Hi Rebecca,
I feel your frustrations! I've felt like that for a while, always a different doctor or consultant, actaully on a few occasions felt they didn't really know what they were talking about and disagreed with what they were asking me to do, it's more common that you'd think. I went on DAFNE a couple of years ago and the support network through that is superb, much better than the actual consultants, I'd urge you to aske to go on that if you haven't already.