How much choc and cake are you eating?
And what are your total carbs per day?
If you are over your personal carb threshold, then you can gain weight if you eat fat.
I go by the carbs (no more than 30-40g a day will prevent any gain, but more than that... I wouldn't lose. And I have to be properly in ketosis to lose anything at all.
- that gives me a personal limit of 2 or 3 squares of 70-85% choc per snaffle.
That is about 7g carbs (which is perfect) and as big a portion as I can stomach, because it is so rich, so strong, so satisfying.
The thought of 100g of 70+% dark choc in one sitting is... unattractive to me.
Likewise with low carb baking.
They are so much more filling, more dense, than a piece of wheat flour cake or biscuit.
A smaller portion is enough.
The drawback of eating sweet stuff while low carbing is that your palette never adjusts and learns to appreciate the subtleties and natural sweetness of real food. Better to cut them completely, allow your taste to adjust, then reintroduce them, slowly.
I was trapped in a social situation where I could not refuse a piece of cake this week (a colleague had made me a birthday cake). As the birthday girl, I was trapped. I cut a half inch sliver and pretended to enjoy it. Everyone else was positively orgasmic at its rich coffee-choc butter cream half inch coating.
I thought it was absolutely vile. I love coffee. And choc. But that amount of margarine and sugar? Shudder. Sickly does not describe it. It was quite nauseating. Ended up slipping it into the bin, but even 2 mouthfuls had my BG up to 9, and a sugar headache.