I am a Biomedical Scientist specialising in haematology/blood transfusion science and also have Type 1 diabetes (on Animas 2020 since January 2010). The normal range for the platelet count is usually taken as 150-400 in the UK, but may differ elsewhere,eg. in the US it is 120-400. In fact it varies widely in healthy individuals, often dropping to as low as 100, or less, during viral infections, then returning to normal, without causing any symptoms. Many people habitually have a count of 100-150 and are perfectly healthy.
Symptoms of a dangerously low platelet count are; unexplained bruising, nose bleeds and bleeding from other orifices,and prolonged heavy periods, but this only occurs when the count drops well below 50. Normally, a platelet transfusion wouldn't be given until it reaches 20. A very low count is dangerous due to the risk of internal haemorrhage, especially in the brain. This mainly occurs in cancer patients on chemotherapy, who are carefully monitored with regular blood tests. There is also a rare autoimmune condition called ITP, in which platelets are destroyed by antibodies and may reach dangerously low levels. I have never come across a person with ITP who also had Type 1 diabetes, and I have never found any association between diabetes and low platelet counts.
The National Blood Service will not accept Type 1 diabetics as blood donors due to the presence of unknown amounts of injected insulin in the unit of blood, which might pose a risk to the recipient. Also, the donor may be at risk of a hypo after giving blood. In my dealings with the National Blood Service I have never been aware of the platelet count being of any concern in diabetics.
The slower rate of wound healing in some diabetics is not caused by a low platelet count. There are many other factors involved.
Haemophilia has nothing to do with platelets, it is caused by Factor 8 deficiency.
I hope this helps to clear up some worries.