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My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice please!?

sjones

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Hi,

My husband was diagnosed last week as Type 1, he took the news quite hard and is starting to get into a routine checking his blood sugar levels. He hasn't started on his booster insulin injections yet he has tablets and a background insulin at the moment (I think the hospital are letting him get used to it all slowly). We are booked in for a meeting with a dietition in a couple of weeks and I think I understand the basics of how this whole thing works.
I am really trying to be supportive and help to make this lifestyle change as easy as possible for him. He is 36 and I am 27, until I got pregnant in June we both had a busy social life which included quite a lot of drinking! Obviously I have stopped drinking and have been eating healthily anyway but I understand that too many carbs aren't good for him....I would welcome any advice on how to help support him and any good food ideas anyone can offer me. I can't believe how much sugar is in low fat foods!!

Many thanks

Sarah x
 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas

Hi Sarah and welcome to the forum I'm sorry about your husband's diagnosis. All is very confusing at the beginning but carry on reading here and you will learn a lot about helping him to look after himself. Here is some information we give to new members which includes advice on the food it is best for him to eat. I hope it is helpful to you both. Ask as many questions as you like as there is usually someone to help.

 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas

Hi,

Thank you for this information! I am sure I will have lots of questions over the coming weeks!

Sarah x
 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas

Has the hospital confirmed he's T1 or are you just assuming this because of he's been put on insulin?

You don't say what tablets he's on, whether they are an oral diabetic medication, or one of the preventive meds that the docs like to give the diabetics, Blood Pressure, Statin

T1's start off on both types of insulin, Background (long acting injected once a day) and quick acting which I think you've refered to has a 'boaster' oral diabetic tablets actually do zilch for the T1 diabetic...

But assuming he's T1 diabetic. (you do need to establish this with his team)

Being told you are diabeticc is like having the rug pulled from under you, it's life changing big, So you do go through the 5 stages of grieve morning the loss of your past life, fearing what the future now holds for you.. The first weeks or months, yes a lot of motivation to do injections take your BG etc.. Then one day it hits unlike the times with other medical treatments there's be an end date, where your condition is resolved and you go back to your normal live and expectations that what you are doing now you will be doing for the rest of you life, then it becomes scary and hard as you learn to except it all into a what you percieve to be normallity..

Carbs do play a major role in control has you use insulin to countereact them, sadly it's not as simple as saying for every 10g you inject xx amount of insulin, there are other factors to the dose equation such as exercise before or after, stress levels, infections etc then on top of that you've got the matching of the profile (action) of the insulin to that of the type of carbs you are eating... Simple carbs such as refined sugar hit the system quick, complex carbs such as pasta, grains hit he system slow.. Fat content can slow adorption down...

How many carbs is too high for the diabetic, well it depends on the needs of the diabetic, if you are active, slim etc then you would have a larger amount than somebody who lived a very non-active life.. The dietiian can give you guidence on what daily amounts you might be looking at, by taking your husband normal eating habits into consideration with his activity levels and whether he needs to lose weight etc.. But it is a guidence starting point to get you going..

As to special diabetic diets, me I personally don't believe their is one I eat foods just the same as anybody else few exceptions, such as the rare occasion I have a fizzy drink it's diet version, I wouldn't have candy floss unless I was hypo of cause.. I don't regulary eat chocolate unless I know I'm going to be doing something, such as gardening etc when I know that I can burn off the effects..
 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas

Thanh you for the info.

Yes they have unofficially confirmed it, there are a couple of blood results that they are waiting for to confirm 100% but the glicazide tablets they first tried him on only reduced his ketones and not his blood sugar. Since taking the background insulin his blood sugar has reduced to the low teens and they are gradually increasing the amount he takes daily. The reason they have left him on the tablets along side the insulin is that he refused to have four injections a day when we were in the hospital last week. He has come to terms with it now and accepts that he will have to have these injections. The consultant suggested this a way of 'easing' him into it and getting used to the injections.

We have a balanced diet, our evening meal is usually some kind of meat with veg / salad and potatoes or pasta. I am trying to understand if I should be changing this or not? I can understand that carbs in chips, pasta, bread etc mean that he will need more insulin but I am unsure as to weather increasing the amount of insulin to counteract these carbohydrates is bad for you as it seems that he should be reducing carbs....is this the case?
 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas


No, I wouldn't change it, I think it sounds fine.
If he's using insulin, the main thing to be concerned about is matching the insulin to the carbs eaten, so his blood sugar doesn't go too high. That means he could eat a double chip butty with treacle pie and it's fine, but he'd need a huge dose of insulin to manage it.
All you are doing is mimicking what a 'normal' person's insulin is doing. Their bodies would produce a huge amount of insulin for a double chip butty with treacle pie, and we have to inject the equivalent. It's not bad or good, it's a personal choice.
This is very different from Type 2 diabetes. Most (but not all) the discussion about low carbing tends to be amongst the Type 2s. Some Type 1s do find that a low carb diet makes it easier to maintain low, smooth blood sugars, but lots of us eat what we like and just match it with insulin.

If he's finding it hard work adjusting to the diagnosis then I wouldn't try and change your diet at the same time anyway... I'd keep as many things as possible 'just as usual'. But others may disagree.
 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas

Thank you so much...that makes perfect sense and will hopefully make things easier for me as the household cook with two teenage step sons to also keep happy!!!

I am sure I will be on here with more questions in the near future...
 
Re: My husband has just been diagnosed Type 1 - advice pleas

Hi Sarah ,
I,m sort of in the same boat only a few more months down the line . My BF was misdiagnosed T2 approx 6 yrs ago then in March this year he collapsed with a BM of 30 and turned out he was T1 all along. We are at the stage now that he is in total denial , started off not bad at first with injecting, checking levels etc but then we have hit a massive brick wall . just to warn you that this may happen and you need alot of patience and understanding and also time out for yourself . I wish you both the best of luck and anytime you want to chat feel free to inbox me xx Jennie
 
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