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Never Give Up, Never Surrender!

popsy

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Location
North Otago, New Zealand
Type of diabetes
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Tablets (oral)
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Crowds of people, my idea of hell would be a huge gathering of any sort!

Heights, scare me to death!
Liars, cheats. poseurs, any kind of violence, thieves and people who take advantage of others.

The way the world is going to hell in a handbasket.

Global warming, the melting ice caps, whaling..I mean what for?!

Cruelty

Having to give up my eat everything philosophy..and I really really dislike consequences.
Never Give Up, Never Surrender!

That's a line from one favourite silly movies of all time, Galaxy Quest. Not a great movie but I love it and this line just grabs me by the throat every time!

Never Give Up, Never Surrender! Yes your day has been horrible, you've had a row with your husband/partner/best friend/kids or whoever. It's bloody well raining again and the car won't start. The kids need picking up from school and you've had such busy day that there's nothing for tea yet. And guess what....it's YOU who has to do all that! It probably isn't just you but that's how it feel sometimes

_________________________ That's a blank space for you to fill in for your own mess ups.

But know what? No matter what dreadful stuff has happened today, no matter who has messed up your life there is always one thing that's constant ...your diabetes. Stress will affect your levels as well as driving you towards the stuff you know isn't good for you. But no matter, NO MATTER, what you do today, your diabetes will still be the same, still there to be dealt with and with you for the rest of your life.

So I suppose what I'm saying is don't use it as an excuse to duck out of your diabetes responsibilities. There's no-one else who can do what you have to do every single day. Even if you give in and don't do what you know is right, the stuff that drove you to it in the first place will still be there to be dealt with. The kids will still have to be picked up, the vacuum still has to be shoved around the blasted floor and ______________________________, yep another blank

Give yourself a break won't yah? But never from the stuff that will help you because ultimately if you feel fantastic then all the other stuff really doesn't seem so bad

Every day when I wake up I am glad. Really? No not really, some days I just want to stay in bed and some days I get it so wrong I just can't see how I will ever get it right again but I take inspiration from my friends on here, some of whom are awe inspiring, and give myself a kick up the backside, get out of bed and do my best.

Lecture over

Never Give Up, Never Surrender! Okay?
 
Never Give Up, Never Surrender!

That's a line from one favourite silly movies of all time, Galaxy Quest. Not a great movie but I love it and this line just grabs me by the throat every time!
Never Give Up, Never Surrender! Okay?

I think Galaxy Quest is one of the greatest Sci Fi films ever made. So there.
 
Wish I'd seen this post yesterday. Made a bad choice. 3 Thorntons choccies and 2 dsp of daughters choc pudding as she didn't want it. Choccies in morning and pud in evening. Also had glass of wine and quite a lot of peanuts. Don't know what was wrong with me. Normally really good. Choccies made me really dizzy 9.8 bs which , according to dn at hospital is in normal?,! (Yeah, right) range. Had intended to eat then cycle but as I was going out door we got visitors then 1 hour later felt ****. Pud and wine had no effect. I know I don't deserve any sympathy but had **** week and babysitted everyone's kids Friday, my own yesterday and more kids tonight. The joys of being a parent!
 
What a great and thought provking post....hope it will keep us all going.....
Sending you and everyone a positive hug ((((( )))))) x
 
What a great and thought provking post....hope it will keep us all going.....
Sending you and everyone a positive hug ((((( )))))) x

Thanks sweetie I really needed a virtual hug today
 
Great post Popsy
Under a lot of pressure at work this week and it is at times like this when giving in to the temptation of not taking as good care of myself as I usually do is greatest. Exercise and eating right take time, which I do not have at the moment.

But you know what? You are right!

I can not use this as an excuse. My diabetes will not take time off me so I can afford to give myself time off from it.

Too late to exercise this morning but I will do so when I get back home tonight

Thanks for the wake up call!


Pavlos
Type 2 - Diagnosed 2009; Latest HbA1c 5,8%; Diabetes Medication: metformin 2x850mg; Other medication: Aspirin 75mg, Valsartan 80mg, Rosuvostatin 20mg, Ezetimibe 10mg; Exercise: One hour walk daily, tennis weekly, swimming when warm enough
 
Go Pavlosn! I have given myself a challenge of doing some exercise every day during the Easter hols.i teach in the term time so only manage to do something at weekends although now it's the lighter weather have started cycling my girls to rainbows. Lidl takes half an hour to walk to from our house so I walked there yesterday. Hoping that the exercise might bring the weight down.
 
Thank you popsy, I need that to wake up to. Went to bed on 17.3 last night and decided today was going to be ruined. In actual fact I'm now going to spend today getting back on track and sorting myself out.


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Thank you popsy, I need that to wake up to. Went to bed on 17.3 last night and decided today was going to be ruined. In actual fact I'm now going to spend today getting back on track and sorting myself out.


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Well done Rosie. I think that sometimes facing up to the stuff that needs facing is the hardest part and goodness knows you've had a lot to deal with lately but I know you can do this, I have faith in you.

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Thanks Scandichic. I know you have had a bit of a rough ride lately. Hopefully things will look up over Easter holidays. I tend to find that it is easier to stay on truck when work related stress is less.

Ps hope your girls were able to find the pots of gold in those rainbows!


Pavlos
Type 2 - Diagnosed 2009; Latest HbA1c 5,8%; Diabetes Medication: metformin 2x850mg; Other medication: Aspirin 75mg, Valsartan 80mg, Rosuvostatin 20mg, Ezetimibe 10mg; Exercise: One hour walk daily, tennis weekly, swimming when warm enough
 
Thanks for your support. I need some spinach for dinner tonight (panfried salmon with Puy lentils and wilted spinach - much to my youngests disgust! ) s o we need a walk. Managed to walk to docs for hba1c in 4 minutes power walking. Tescos is a 15-20 min walk with girls. Shopping to carry back as we need milk so weights too
 

Hello Pavlos

Hope you gave yourself time to exercise! I know that can be so hard at the end of the day but oh so worth it, the endorphin rush is a blast isn't it?

Sometimes life can bulldoze us into believing we haven't got the time but I 100% believe that if there is only a little time to spare then we need to make ourselves the priority. Sounds selfish in some ways and It's hard to find the time to plan but we all know that planning is the foundation stone of good diabetes control and when we have so much on our plate that it goes by the board it's a slippery slope all the way down to where we started. I have read time and again on here about how at first we did what we needed to but I think that familiarity does breed contempt and it becomes easy to not pay attention to the small stuff and it's always the small stuff that can de-rail us and trip us up. The big stuff often solves itself but the small stuff is easy to miss.

I hope you (and all of us) can prioritise our lives to make ourselves at least as important as everyone else in our lives because without ourselves we are nothing, we achieve nothing and can be nothing in the battle we must wage against our diabetes every single day.
 
Thoroughly enjoyed reading this thread popsy, and my goodness, the positive reactions
shown in the replies....very encouraging and a breath of fresh air.


willie.
 
No exercise last night but got up really early this morning for an hour's walk.

See photo here to get an idea of what I mean by early


More photos on my diary thread

http://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/ind...-all-that---personal-diary.53350/#post-517976






Pavlos
Type 2 - Diagnosed 2009; Latest HbA1c 5,8%; Diabetes Medication: metformin 2x850mg; Other medication: Aspirin 75mg, Valsartan 80mg, Rosuvostatin 20mg, Ezetimibe 10mg; Exercise: One hour walk daily, tennis weekly, swimming when warm enough
 
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Did you need a hug ....here is another bigger one , use it whenever you need ((((((((((( hhhhuuuuuuggggs)))))))))) x

Thank you so much! I will keep it in a drawer safe where I know it is You are nice xx
 
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