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marie28

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i just found out today that i have i diabetes that my bloods shown are high 8.5 i had this in pregnancy with my 3 children was told might get it later in life was not hoping that it would be now tho i feel really low and alone am already taking tablets for my high blood pressure am only 28 i dont know how cope with this i have 3 children i need look after age 6 /4 /1 so its hard work my hubby is big help but works long hours i just need a friend right now any ideas what i can do ?
 
Hi Marie28,

Welcome to the forum. You will find lots of help and support here. Someone will be along soon to share the standard advice for newly diagnosed members.

I only have one child, who is two and a half, and that's quite a bit of hard work, so three must be fun! Diabetes does seem overwhelming at first, but you can find a way to make it work for you.
 
Welcome Marie..have a look around the forum, i hope it can help. Over the coming weeks, as teh shock and the grief (if that is the right word) of diagnosis begins to wear off, I am sure that you will find help here. i is usually a very friendly place...and I am sure you experiences will helpothers too!

i have 2 children, aged 5 and 3, so know whereyou are coming from!
 
Hi Marie and welcome to the forum It is a shock when you are diagnosed with diabetes but once you learn how to look after it properly you will start to feel more confident and it won't seem so bad after all.

This is the advice that Russ mentioned. It was written by former monitors, Ken and Sue for new members and should help you to get started on managing your diabetes.

 
hello, you'll soon see people on here willing to help. I always like to look positive, ok I've had to make some changes (basically I cut a lot of bread out-wasn't difficult) as a result I have lost weight and the diabetes is under good control & I feel healthier than I have dne for a long time. I don't have kids, my advice woud be to get them drinking scotch so they pass out quietly each night! Maybe that's why I shouldn't have kids! But I always say you should make some time just for you, even if it's only half hour luxury bath while they're asleep-do something you enjoy each day.
 
Hi, welcome to us all here, you will soon make plenty of new friends and get some great support and help here on the forum. You wont feel so alone, worn out, n unsupported for long. A great suggestion there above from 'gappy' to make some YOU TIME , a 'pamper you' hour or two, something just for you, giving yourself time to recharge your batteries then return to your family positive and revitalised. Maybe look at asking a relative to mind the children for an hour whilst you get a treat [like get hair done? nails manicured/pedicure] It all gives you some time out and space just for you. You can get too crowded and drained when you're giving out care, love, support to the family all the time. Is it even possible for you and your hubby to have a 'date' night out once a week or month? just the 2 of you have an evening to maybe have a meal , talk, vist cinema, quiet pub, romantic time out together. Then you can both feel the benefits of quality time out and return to the children refreshed and revitalised. Hope this helps? Anna.x
 
Welcome to the Forum Marie

Advice and friendship are now yours in abundance. Hope it helps.

Regards

Osidge
 
hello,everyone,i am new here too.was diagnosed about 6 weeks ago.fasting blood sugar was about 8 and went up to 14,after doing the lucozade,glucose intolerance test.my doctor was very matter of fact and said,you dont need a monitor or medication.i have just sent off today for a monitor online.all my life i have excercised alot,even though i am heavier than i should be,i have changed my diet and the dietician says i know just what to do,there is no more she can teach me,i have bought many books and studied alot these past 6 weeks.the first few weeks i had very cold legs and feet,but this only lasted for a couple of weeks and now they are not too bad at all.i am being given vitamin b12 injections by my doctor and have started taking complex vitamins,designed to aid a diabetics diet.i went for a foot appointment and everything was fine ,i have never had foot,nail or skin problems and she said my feet were very low risk of developing problems.i have felt much better having improved my diet and doing even more excercising,diabetes is in my family alot,but i am the only one who is over weight,i thought when i weighed myself this week i would have lost weight,but it was just the same,a bit dissapointed,i was.i have found this week,i am quite sensitive to bright light and white walls,not all the time,but out walking when it is bright,i have felt,lightheaded,even a little sick and very panicky,i think any disturbance to the eyes is very scary,when this happens i even feel quite tearful,im a shortsighted woman,something i have lived with for years and that has never made me scared,i was awake most of last night,worrying about this,i am now trying to pluck up the courage to go for a diabetic eye test,the test isnt as much of a worry as the blurred near vision and light sensitivity,i believe you suffer from afterwards,for some hours.would welcome any advice,thankyou and so nice to meet you all.
 
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