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G'day all

I registered today, after reaching my wits end with my elderly mother, a type 2 diabetic. Thankfully, I don't have it myself, but I will be posting on here for any advice that anyone can give, which will point me in the direction of some meaningful information which I can place before my mum, so that she will actually read it and realise that she has a serious complaint.

We have read all the standard literature, and she has been diagnosed for a few years now (at least 5), however, as time has gone on, she has paid less and less attention to her diet, and just seems to think the whole thing will just go away. She has lied to the doctor about her health in an effort to retain her driving license (she is 77), and quite frankly I dont know whether I am coming or going these days - am going grey with the worry of it all!
 
How to get someone to realise this is serious!!

Hi all, I just registered today.

My 77 year old mother was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes about 5 years ago.

She never seemed to realise that she has a serious condition, and since diagnosis, she has gradually paid less and less attention to her diet, is too overweight and unsteady on her feet to exercise, and has now started not taking her tablets, or taking them twice etc.

I have spoken with her doctor on a couple of occasions, but he wont discuss her health with me (due to the oath and such), so all I can do is voice my concerns and hopes something is done.

I am not sure whether her absent mindedness is due to plain old age, or because she is so dismissive of her illness, and that she may be actually contributing to her own confusion by not making any attempt to control it.

Any ideas?
 
G'day, Worried daughter. I can understand you feel so helpless. You have done the right thing to join this forum where there are always people to help if you ask. I don't know how she'd react if you told her what could happen if she ignored her diabetes but here is a description of some of the problems which could arise. You could show it to her if you think it's suitable for her to read or pick out some suitable extracts for her.

http://diabetes.niddk.nih.gov/dm/pubs/neuropathies/

I expect you already know how to manage diabetes but in case you might find something useful in this advice, here is some information from the Forum Monitors for new members.

 
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