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Shannon

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I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes about a month ago. I am still coming to terms with it. I have told my mum and brother. Mainly because after telling my brother, he pressurised me into telling mum. I have other medical conditions as well. Apart from a very good friend at work, I feel very alone. At home it is like my mum is watching everything I eat like a hawk. Weightwatcher meals are flying in like they are going out of fashion. It is nice that they want to look after me and everything, but I just want them to stop and let me figure this one out on my own. Has anyone had a similar experience? If so please could you advise me on the best way to get them to back off?

Thanks

Chris
 
Chris,

I am sure they all mean well, just be polite and ask them for some space to get your head round all the information you need to take in, but will keep them all informed of your progress in due course.

In the meantime, have a good read of the forum and any questions fire away, there are more than enough type 2's on this forum who will happily answer your questions.

Nigel
 
In diabetes you need to watch how many carbs you eat as in the advice below. WeightWatcher meals are usually quite high in carbs so always read the packages. I know this may be difficult to explain to your well meaning mum but it could be a learning process for your both so that you can begin to take control of your diabetes.

 
Hi to all new members thay are very good and answer your questions and put you at ease if you can control your diet your half way their and metaforman can make some people feel sick its just the side effect from the metaforman but it should wear off.
 
Hi Chris,

I'm new to all this, diagnosed couple of days ago. My other half is obviously very worried and so I got him to read comments on this site as he felt he couldn't do anything and started fussing.

If it helps, try putting the boot on the other foot and think about if it were you Mum who had been diagnosed, sometimes this does help see the other side and you might get a clue on how to deal with her then.

Hope some of this helps as there's certainly enough to take on board without having to battle the relatives too :roll:

Griffy.
 
Hi Shannon and welcome.

Your mum is obviously worried and trying to do her best but unfortunately it isn't as simple as eating weightwatcher meals - if only it was! :roll: The advice Sue has posted is just what you need to do so do share it with your mum and tell her that you are working on it and then hopefully she will let you get on with it.

Let us know how things go.
 
Shannon welcome to the forum!

I had real issues telling my mother-she is also a practice nurse (though not in the Cotswolds). They worry a lot anyway and I dealt with it by not discussing it until I had accepted the condition first. Now I have a superbly supportive mum who is able to give me loads of good advice which is an absolute result.

I watched this forum for a long time before jumping on board. Its great and I hope you will get some answers to your questions.
 
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