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newly diagnosed and not sure!

hpotter44

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Hi My name is Hayley and after a stroke I was diagnosed with type 2 Diabetes. I was having treatment for Migraine associated vertigo for 4 years up until the stroke. They obviously had misdiagnosed me because I feel wonderful and look wonderful too even though I had an extensive left frontal Thrombotic
Lobe (Stroke). I lost the use of my right side and I could only say two words that were yes or no. Since taking the medication Metaformin I feel better than I have done in the last 4 years.

My only gripe since being diagnosed is with different diabetic nurses not singing from the same hymn sheet. One says one thing and the other says some entirely different. What food does one Eat and should I test my glucose levels regularly? Apparently not I am told and to eat everything in moderation!!! I bought my glucose tester myself and the test strips and finger prickers when I came out of hospital. I want to be able to manage my conditions myself so I thought I was doing right? Yet I am told No because I am taking the medication Metaformin? Am I being told no because its a cost cutting exercise?

I am waiting to be told if I have Heart Failure too because of the stroke so I am going through a very difficult time at the moment and feeling very angry inside too. I am only 44 years of age and recently divorced after 27 years of marriage and left Bankrupt too with no money either and due to the stroke I have had to move home to live in another town with my 70 year old Mum. The only positive side is I speak my mind now with all thats happened to me now and I do believe that this will be the making of me!!!!

Your thoughts and opinions will be appreciated,
Hayley x
 
hi hayley,

I'm sorry to hear what's happened to you recently

On one hand it's never good when someone else joins the forum, as it means another diagnosis, but on the other hand (my favourite) you've found a very good place to talk to people who are in the same boat and can really understand whats your going through

Daisy is a moderator here, and i'm sure she will be along soon to kindly post some great info that's shared with all members of the forum. It's very pro-active advice/info which you will see is 100% behind managing diabetes and self testing etc. No matter what medication you are on it's alays best to know your levels, then you can act on any you aren't happy with.

Last year my mum who was 44 also at the time, collapsed and went into cardiac arrest, unexpected as the only condition she has is asthma, luckily my nana was home to help her and the fast response was here quick thankfully to save her life.

She was in intensive care for two days before being moved onto a heart ward, they still don't know what happened, they have investigated and investigated to see if she has an underlying condition and nothing was found, eventually she was fitted with a de-fib (shocks her heart if she goes into VF, it's fitted under her collarbone and into her heart)

This was the same year her sister died aged 47 from liver failure due to alcoholism. the year prior to this she split with my younger sisters father partner of 17 years, which happened 3 months after i was diagnosed with diabetes aged 20.

So i sort of understand how terrible things can seem, and how horrible life can be that it not only strikes you once but several times in such a short space of time.

But things have gotten better for me and my family, it takes hardwork to come to terms with things, the way i see it is that things happen that can't be taken back, i can't rewind things and make it different. But i can be positive about it, i can learn from the cruel things that life throws at me and i can turn it into an advantage!

From diabetes i have learnt that i CAN be commited. i AM strong willed and determined. i CAN live a long healthy life. I am more aware of food, exercise and my health in general. I've learnt im not invincible but i've also learnt i'm not made of glass either. I've learnt a great deal more in the past two years than i did the previous 21!

I hope the best for you with your heart, and i hope things start looking up for you too. I assure you if you speak your mind and ask anything you like here there are many great people who can help, advise and support you. It's all confusing now i bet, especially with conflicting advice, but after a while you will pick out the advice that better suits you helping you to control your diabetes the best you can.

All the best Hayley i hope some of what i said helps and welcome the the forum
 
Hi Hayley and welcome to the forum It's a shame that your diabetic nurses don't give you the same information. There are a lot of different opinions on which is the best way to treat diabetes. You are right to have got yourself testing equipment as testing is a very important part of good diabetes management. I take Metformin and test regularly. The important thing is to test before, and 2 hours after meals so you can see which foods you can eat. You should aim for the two levels being similar. You are right - they don't want you to test because of cost. A lot of members have to fund their own testing equipment - strips from ebay and free meters from manufacturers if you ask. Regarding diet, have a look at this information here which was written for new members - this should help you to get good control of your diabetes. If you have any questions please ask as there is always someone here who will help.

 
Thanks Ebony321 And Daisy1 for responding to my enquiry! Next time I go to see my Gp and will insist that he provides me with Test strips and finger prickers :wink: Watch this space . Daisy1 thanks to all the links there really helpful.

Again thanks,
Hayley.x
 
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