Hi Maskedman
I used to have very similar symptoms to the ones that you describe here, mine were so bad that I was unable to walk properly and eventually was in a wheelchair, I was diagnosed with neuropathy, my fingers were also affected and I found it hard to hold cutlery, it would drop out of my hands, typing was difficult etc
Its important that you get a proper diagnosis, you have waited for a month now for that appointment, if you dont want to chase it up you could at least make sure that all is still on track, because as things pass through the system they can get lost, it has happened to a few people I know, so do check that all is in order there.
This numbness that you are experiencing could be due for many reasons, you have probably been diabetic for quite some time before diagnosis, it could be some vitamin/mineal deficiency, and a whole lot of other causes too. But dont worry too much though, wait till you have your diagnosis then you know what you are up against and do your best to deal with it.
In the meantime, till you see a neurologist, make sure that you get good control over that bg, that you eat a good diet that gives you the full range of vitamins and minerals and protein and fibre that you need. Take some of the good oils, eg eat walnuts, almonds, etc
And move those legs, to keep the circulation going, move the toes, the ankles you can do exercises while you watch TV, you can do them in bed, while reading a book, anything, any movement is good, it doesnt have to be anything strenuous.
I am pleased to say that my neuropathy has gone, I keep my bg at non-diabetic levels, have a very healthy diet, take flaxseed oil and am very active, so you see there is plenty of hope there for anyone experiencing those worrying symptoms.
I hope that you get better really soon.
All the best
Karen