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Oh dear, this was unexpected

We are certainly not very British about it!
 
Totto said:
We are certainly not very British about it!
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Tack och lov! Swedes are more direct. I love this. I know where I stand. If I ever win the lottery, it will be the first place I move to with a place in England (ideally the lakes) so that I can enjoy the best of both worlds! ​
 
Totto said:
We are certainly not very British about it!
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True considering Swedens musical influences are in general political folk. & the odd death metal band.
Your country's biggest export was the rather whimsical ABBA.
 
mothers need to lock up their sons, it does sound a little sad and yuk
 
Jill the tt said:
mothers need to lock up their sons, it does sound a little sad and yuk
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I doubt that Totto's OH is not aware that something is going on. Some men and women may not be good communicators but they are not stupid either.
 
Jill the tt said:
mothers need to lock up their sons, it does sound a little sad and yuk
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It almost reads as borderline "grooming"... I'm sure the lad is old enough to know what he's doing though.
 
catherinecherub said:
I doubt that Totto's OH is not aware that something is going on. Some men and women may not be good communicators but they are not stupid either.
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i just think it's sad for the unknowing fool, i have to be emotionally honest with people, imagine if the husband looked on the website, or some one who knows them
 
Jaylee said:
It almost reads as borderline "grooming"... I'm sure the lad is old enough to know what he's doing though.
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i'm sure he's not under age,but i think the older person should know better and be more responsible, the first post did say he was only just adult, i always have thought how easy it is to take advantage of younger people, they don't see it coming from a mother figure
 
Jill the tt said:
i just think it's sad for the unknowing fool, i have to be emotionally honest with people, imagine if the husband looked on the website, or some one who knows them
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I'm sure Totto's "sweet distraction" is evident without it publicised on this forum...

Besides a picture was posted a few posts back of "young fellowmelad" on a rocky beach in shorts which put me in mind of "Lord of the flies"??
It's been removed now..
 
Don't get me wrong Totto.

I have been caught up in the gravity of the "older woman" in my teens a few times.
A late 20's recently separated from her partner, work colleague of my mums at a New Year's Eve party.
A 30 something ships croupier actually took me on a movie date & went for it on the way home in her Mini.
The middle aged mother of a girl I dated for two years...

I kind of got the idea they wanted to "wipe out their past"..?! There was definitely no future for me in any of it... Lol
 
i thought i read on the forum to be mind full as children visit, i don't see why these talks can't be done privately, if thats your thing fine
 
So far it's been subtle enough to go unnoticed....!

 
Brunneria said:
@Jaylee and @Jill the tt

Wow. Clearly I have read a completely different thread from the one you two seem to have 'interpreted'.
Thank goodness.
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Fair play Brunneria. I can only speak for myself when I say I'm only looking at this from an approximate 358 million km from Venus..
 
I'm sorry but I find your post very judgemental. The OP hasn't done anything with this young man and even if she had - so what! No one is forcing any of us to read this thread and if it offends you then perhaps you should exercise free will and not read it.
 
Well I was lost for words until Scandi said something, well done Scandi.
 
Brunneria said:
Martian!

(I've ALWAYS wanted to have a reason to use that smilie!)
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I look at it this way. There are threads on here regarding the more private complications that come with Diabetes.
Stuff like ED, thrush, women's stuff that slip my mind now. No one bats an eyelid.. Those that can help, help the best way they can without being "coy" to the point of obscure...

We all know the "rules" & ethics when in a relationship or marriage.
Now I've read this & think OK I've seen the other side of the coin.
I also realise that furtive meetings with a third party would cause distress & accusations if found out..? The young lad may even fall victim to a savage beating from the aggrieved due to heightened emotion.. Not fair on both gentlemen involved in my book.

The OPs problem might be shared, but I don't believe it's been halved. In this case. Lol
The subject has been put into the "general chat" section.. & with the utmost respect to everyone (you guys are great.) my intention is purely "devil's advocate...!!
 
Brunneria said:
@Jaylee and @Jill the tt

Wow. Clearly I have read a completely different thread from the one you two seem to have 'interpreted'.
Thank goodness.
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I looked up an old ***** and had a bit of lunch rest on my own and that calmed me down enough to act sensibly the rest of the day


how else can this be interpreted,. i knew someone who's son was seeing an older woman, all the men said go for it, the mother was so upset, i think if she'd been 30yrs older she may have killed her. any way i have a right to my opinion, anyone can read this forum, what i can't understand is i've worked 60 hr weeks i would never have had the time to do anything like this or time to post about it.
 
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