pavlosn
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This is not a friendship in either of the participants minds. This is clearly a romance and whether things have become physical or not is in my opinion of little significance.
This is not a friendship in either of the participants minds. This is clearly a romance and whether things have become physical or not is in my opinion of little significance.Does this mean that your relationship with hubbie is over? If the age difference not the fact that you both have partners is the issue? Or are the 2 of you going to remain just good friends? Will his girlfriend be accepting of your friendship? If it was a friendship then why is she jealous? Just wondering?
I prefer to ask questions rather than tell someone what to do as it will be the op who has to deal with the consequences.This is not a friendship in either of the participants minds. This is clearly a romance and whether things have become physical or not is in my opinion of little significance.
I also think age is irrelevant. Some people are just meant to be together.Totto, just to tell you that my mother (now 94) has lived - and is still living - happily with her partner (now 72) for more than 40 years. So sometimes age difference will not be the major inhibitant.
best, annelise
We will, as I said in an earlier post, now go on with our lives, he in France with his girlfriend and uni, I with hubby on the farm.
Pavlovson, it is a romantic friendship. We don't want to go further than that and it is fine. I guess the romantic part will wear off soon enough.
And I still want to live with hubby.
Agree to a certain extent about the irrelevance of age but in our case it is 30 years and as I said, we are not going to disrupt all and everything but try to keep in contact anyway.
No French to speak of, never studied it anyway but have picked up a bit here and there.
Two sites to help you out.We will, as I said in an earlier post, now go on with our lives, he in France with his girlfriend and uni, I with hubby on the farm.
Pavlovson, it is a romantic friendship. We don't want to go further than that and it is fine. I guess the romantic part will wear off soon enough.
And I still want to live with hubby.
Agree to a certain extent about the irrelevance of age but in our case it is 30 years and as I said, we are not going to disrupt all and everything but try to keep in contact anyway.
No French to speak of, never studied it anyway but have picked up a bit here and there.
Dear ScandichicI prefer to ask questions rather than tell someone what to do as it will be the op who has to deal with the consequences.
I think that @Totto and her friend need to decide what they want so that they can all move forward. There are clearly several options but some would require a leap of faith.
I loved your pictures of Cyprus and am glad you are posting again.How is your bs?
This is the problem with the written word. I was not suggesting that you were telling her what to do I was trying to explain why I ask questions - it's my way of asking someone if they've thought of the following? They probably have but then sometimes we all miss the obvious - I include myself in that!Dear Scandichic
It was not my intention to tell Dotto what to do, I feel unqualified in the extreme to even begin to do so particularly as I think that the position she finds herself is a potential minefield.
I agree that it is her life and she has to live with the consequences.
I mentioned in one of my posts that she now has the task of working things out with her husband and that I hope she is able to do so, because this is what she said she intended to do.
I am pleased that from her latest posts it seems that in her own mind she is clear as to what she wants her future to hold.
I just hope it all works out for her in the end.
Pavlos
P.s blood glucose improving but still high, latest morning count 8.4 mmol. Rome was not conquered in a day and all that
Thank you. Fairly remarkable that I put that much on!@Scandichic
21kg is a remarkable achievement! You should be very proud!
Keep up the good work.
Pavlos
Awww! Very sweet!
We did have a good time, you know. Have look now, I will remove the pic tomorrow.
@Jaylee is this what you call fellowmelad?
@Heathenlass is invited too, she might like the pic?
@Scandichic have a look and tell me what you think.He doesn't look sad, does he?
@Jill the tt might want to have a look, too.
I can also see itAm I the only one who can still see the photo in @Scandichic 's response quoting @Totto 's earlier message?
Scandi you may wish to do something about that.
Pavlos
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