Hi,
I'm affraid i can't help you with your kidney questions but i can tell you something about the preparation stage.
Because i am obese (according to the BMI scale) I'm 100 kilo's now they said to me that it will be difficult to get pregnant.
Especially because of my T2 they said that the combination of the two could give problems.
Keep in mind that my former med team said this to me so i wasn't really motivated by them
.
Having changed med team and starting with insuline i tried to bring my HbA1c to the safe value (under 7)
Had a lot of stress during that stage but when we had the green light, all stress disappeared.
The doctor that i now have states that it's really important not to have to much stress in your life because that's what can
block a possible pregnancy. So if you just keep trying to get good BG's and HbA1c's you're doing half the work right.
But if you have to much stress in your life, your body will react to that and can block a possible pregnancy.
I tried a mindfulness course to get the stress out of my body and it certainly works.
Nevertheless you need a good med team that supports you and give you the confidence to do this!
I hope i can help you with this information. I'm still learning everyday and am 4 weeks pregnant now.
From the preparation stage until conceiving it took us 4 months.
Don't give up and if you want more info, please let me know!
Greetings Annemarie