Re: Really worried about my friend, DKA/Coma help and advice
How sweet of you to look out for your friend. I do not know the technical answers to your questions...but can give you what advice I have.
Coma is very rare, where as serious hypos (lows) and hypers (highs DKA) are less you, so the chances are you friend will be able to tell youwhat is wrong, or do a blood test to find out. If she is in a coma, of either sort, the most important thing you can do is call an ambulance...and stress to them that she is a type 1 diabetic and is unconscious.
The outward symptoms of having a very high blood sugar as thirst, going to the loo alot. I have only had serious, hospitalisng DKA once...and that was enough! The outward symptoms were I looked very hung over...and I was panting, and breathing really deeply. i guess ultimately, you would stop breathing...and this is scary.
You ask about the how do I know if she is having a lie in, or really ill in bed? Really tough to tell to be honest sometimes..This depends on the relationship you 2 have, but if you are concenrned...I would have a chat, explain your concern..and ask her what she would suggest. If I were her, I imagine I would be saying things like....lets agree to say whether I am planning a lie in or not. If I am not...and you haven't seen me by 8am, then come in my room, and shake me, prod or whatever works, until you have got a response that I am OK. This could be a bit "nannying" to some though...so depends on her really. If she is low, she may be sweaty etc..if she is high, look out for the heavy breathing.
If she is on teh verge of being unconscious...but is still conscious enough to eat or drink...if you can't get her to test her blood...call the ambulance...and then get her to take a mouthful of fat coke or other sugary drink. OK, so if she is high, this will make her worse.....but if she is already in this state, and you have called an ambulance, you are not goingto do her any more harm...but if she was low, you may have stopeed her getting worse. Ambulance drivers tend to treat diabetics very wel. and are very used to treating them. I had a few problems when I was pregnant, and needed an ambulance to help me with low blood sugars. (Warning, some diabetics get very agressive when their blodd sugar is low...another sihn, although not a certaintity) They come along, test your bloood, and in my case, gave me a drip into my arm. My hubby says it is amazing to watch, as I went from trying to take a punch at teh ambulance man (in a really funny, completely incompetent way) to unconscious, to sitting on teh sofa, apologising like mad in about 3 minutes. the ambulance men all said (and this happened about 4 times) that they found treating hypos quite rewarding...as they can see that they are helping, the patient tends not to be ill becasue of something they have doen wrong (like derink or drugs etc) and they genuinely need help (unlike those people who phone ambulances to get a lift home!0 They all know that we can get a bit agressive, but tend to be so weak, it is like fending off an angry toddler. Please bear this in mind though for your own safety....and your friends blushes. If she is agressive, leave her alone for a few minutes...don't try and help physically if she is lashing out. You have to keep yourself safe after all.
Sorry, very much a ramble. I hope your freind is able to get her diabetes under better control. I now have "godd" (ish!) control, but I know my hubby still worries about me. I do sometimes feel like a child...when he asks if I am low..when I am actually just a bit annoyed with him..but, really, it is yet more proof, that he cares about me.
Thank you for taking such an interest in your friends diabetes...best of luck