Hi Kathleen, you've had a hell of a shock, and I don't want to bombard you too much with info so soon after your diagnosis, but something else to consider is that the insulin might not be working for you.
A factor that can affect diabetes control is being on an insulin that doesn't suit you. I struggled on Lantus for 4 1/2 years before I realised it was actually the Lantus causing the inconsistency in my control. I could do, eat the same things and take the same dose of insulin, yet my daily levels varied so much; after breakfast one day i could be 7-8, next day up to 17! I had no help or advice from my hospital, in fact when i told my consultant that my bloods fluctuated daily between 2 - 15, (sometimes higher), she told me it was ok as long as they came down again! However when I was on insulatard, and having some control problems, I was switched to Lantus. Why was it not suggested that I change to another insulin when having probs with Lantus? Lantus is a synthetic analogue ,supposedly 24 hour insulin.
Any way the upshot is that I changed to pork insulin last may, and have great consistent control, no unexplained ups and downs- so the proof of the pudding is in the eating! Some insulins don't work for some people.
I also suffered some awful side effects while on Lantus, exhaustion, joint and muscular aches and pains to name a few. As well as my erratic control, these side-effects were ignored by by diabetes clinic, although, as i've since discovered, they are very commonly reported side-effects of analogue insulin.
It would be worth your while looking at the IDDT(insulin dependent diabetes trust) website or ringing their helpline for advice, about insulin or any other queries you probs ur have having being diagnosed to recently.
Best of luck to you
Jus