hi Laughingbird,
It may not be all that bad, you know. I am a type 2 (aged 48) and adore chocolate, Indian food and potatoes (am an Irishman). I've cut way back on all the above, with good results. BUT I can eat a little bit of good Green & Blacks 85% chocolate most days, curries often (although with no, or almost no rice) and the occasional potato. And my latest Hb1AC last month was 5.8. You don't have to totally renounce anything, just change your outlook and, as Hanadr rightly says, your tastebuds really do adjust.
What I've learned from this excellent forum and the book Blood Sugar 101 by the wonderful Jenny Ruhl is that diabetes doesn't have to be a progressively downhill journey IF you take control of it. There are some very inspiring people on this forum who show the way.