Meg,
Sory, can't advise on teh T1/1.5 or 2 issue, but from what you have said your control is excellent.
Your point aboutteh 12 months check is quite a reasonable question to ask...but I have heard it said that most people who have been diabetic have soem changes to teh back oftheir eyes. Alas, I can not quote you a study or other evidence, as it was a passing comment by my optician a few years back. I guess, it is becasue of this they don't check more regularly. It will all depend on the amount of change...how small is small?
Sorry for waffling, I was trying to reassure you, though obviously it is very scary, and not good news, it does not mean that your diabetes is out of control...it is more likely a sign of damage done in your "undiagnosed" years, and now, with good control, thos small changes may even reverse, or certainly get no worse.
take care