Hi there
There are some useful tips for non medication help for thrush and cystitis
Cranberry juice or cranberry tablets often help, increasing your fluids (water) also helps flush out nasties from your system, and often assists in overall glucose management. Probiotics can help with the thrush, especially ones added to yoghurt. Not sure where you are located, but in Australia you can get thrush meds over the counter without a prescription.
Pain around your hips and sensitive skin may be an indication you have a fever, possibly from a urine infection. I rarely get fevers reflected on a thermometer, but if I am in be and the sheets feel scratchy and my skin feels sore, this is indicative to me something is going on.
Shooting and stabbing pains in feet etc does sound a little like neuropathy, sounds like you might need a trip to the doctor. Make some notes of all your issues, so if you do invest in a consultation, you don't leave anything out,
Great work on getting your sugars under control, you will find that helps a lot. Many, many women suffer from thrush and urine infections, sadly diabetics are more prone to these issues, but I wouldn't call them diabetes complications per se.