thanks all again...can be very frustrating at times......not going to go into a huge amount of detail,but ,i think,he thinks,as long as he is taking the meds, thats all he has to do,and everything will be fine his diet is chronic,,,,but i have given up on that.
i also think he has been diabetic for a long time,but has never been picked up,,until a few years ago.
he has had the burning feet for about 30 years,and never connected it to diabetes,,ED,for quite a number of years now.
now he has started with cold numb feet,,and wounds taking a long time to heal,,,i also think he has sleep apnea..
I also think it has started to affect his brain,,and his reasoning..(this is a new worry,,and i am still at the "is it me,or is it him" stage ?)
which again is very difficult.....e.g.is it connected to diabetes,or is it something else......or is it me ??
he had tests earlier this year,for digestion problems,,excess wind,hiccups,bloated,sometimes vomiting.....and although the hospital have written back ,with results,diverticulitus,duodemitus,polyps in stomach,ect ect,............he has not been back to see doc to discuss any further.
so you see,it's all a bit of a mess.
but dont mention the docs.......cos he just wont go.
and i am no doc,,but have tried to do a bit of research......as a partner,can you do too much ?,,,,when your other half solves all his own problems,,with a bar of chocolate,and a DVD ?
thanks for listening,and all your advise.