Hi Jane mum,
welcome to the forum, i'm sure your still in shock with the discovery that your daughter is diabetic, it does get easier. My son was diagnosed 3yrs ago at the age of 7, so i have a pretty good idea of how your feeling. There are plenty of Mums on here to help and support you, so feel free to ask as many questions as you want.
If you go onto the juvenille diabetes web site think its called jdf, they give out free Ruby/Rufus teddy bears, there large and adorable and have patches on there arms and legs for your child to do finger prick tests on and injections, it may help her to cope if she does ruby's bs then her own, kinda make a game of it, my son had a rufus bear in dungarees for boys and loved it.
5 injections a day is a lot for her and you to cope with, my son is on 4 a day with the odd correctional dose, Levemir at night and humalog with meals, we carb count.
Hope things get easier for you all soon, it's a real life changing experience, browse the forum and feel free to get back to me anytime,
With kindest regards,
Suzi x