Hi Grace
Wondered who had woken this one up. It was one I started soon after I joined when like yourself I couldn't believe the rubbish advice that was dished out to people. So back in February I was in much the same position as yourself but now I'm doing brilliantly (if I say so myself) thanks to all the great help the people on the forum gave me.
What I would say is be a bit careful about upping protein too much. There is a safe daily limit set at around 20% or a fifth of what you eat. Going a long way above that can begin to hurt your kidneys. What I did when I cut the carbs was to up my protein a bit but also up things like eggs and cheese. I was a bit concerned that would muck my cholesterol levels up but I needn't have worried as the two tests I've had since then have shown my cholesterol levels actually normalised and got better rather than getting worse. My doc was so impressed he not only supports my new low carb lifestyle but we agreed recently I didn't need to take the cholesterol medication any more.
On the fruit I would try to eat fruit with other things as it has a load of sugar in it. I get my fruit hit each day as desert after my main meal. That way I find it doesn't raise my levels as much as if I ate it by itself. Likewise you've obviously read on this forum that cutting down on starchy carbs is the key so less rice, pasta, bread, potatoes, cereals etc. A good place to start is to halve what you were eating of those and replace what's left with brown basmati rice, brown or tri colour pasta and try Burgen Soya bread which you can get at most supermarkets. Use your meter to tell you if you need to go down further than half (like me) or you might find you can continue to eat more starchy things like some others.
Just keep asking questions is the key.