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- I do not have diabetes
Could you persuade him to come to the appointment by phrasing it in a way that suggests you need him and his diabetes knowledge to help you interpret what the specialists are saying? Yes, I know that might stick in your throat, but it's a way I've found to persuade defensive people. I know you might think it's not your job to humour him and pander to him, but if it benefits all three of you in the long run, then it's worth a try at least.
What do his parents say about his control? I appreciate you may not have felt able to mention it to them.
Type 1 is wearing year after year, and burnout is surprisingly common.
Asking his mum to come to the appointment might be a good idea as long as it won't antagonise him. Perhaps you could ask her to say it was her idea?
He can't come because he has a meeting he can't miss, his mum is going to come with me.
I appreciate it's more than likely burnout but since I'm the one doing all LOs management it's hard to listen to him picking at all the things he thinks I'm doing wrong