@tina_marie you have been bombarded with diabetes for months. It sounds like you're worrying more than Ron. Could it be too heavy for you? Take a breath and try and let Ron manage his diabetes.
If you're diagnosed you will have to follow different medical advice as not 2 of us are the same.
Ron will have to concentrate on his complications and you on trying to reverse yours. You won't be able to do both. Too much to cope with. I know you'll want to but Ron will have to us his own judgement on whether he has a problem or not. As you. Everyone knows their body better.
I know if you're diagnosed as not diabetic Ron will be lucky enough to have both of you keeping on top of it.
Explain to Ron that it is just as much a shock to you , as him and your supporting him. Some women wouldnt care. He's lucky , he has you!